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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I hate it when you think you found "her".

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This really happens to me alot and I hate it.

I find a nice girl, she's got all the things I could want, cute, smart, funny, sweet, etc.

Just when you think you are in the good books, bang! It's over. Goodbye miss perfect. (like there really IS a miss perfect anyway, heh.)

Example: Just a few minutes ago, I was chatting to a girl who was all of the above. She lived close. Sounds perfect ya know?

We was chatting and all, I gave her my picture, she said I was hot. I asked for hers, she was sending it... then halfway, she went offline and it seems I am blocked on her list (MSN Messenger). This also happens in general. When I meet a girl in person, we go out, have fun, feels like I'm about to fall for her when she starts to just completely ignore me or some bullsh|t like that happens.

Fuk, I sometimes hate girls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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okay, now i know she blocked me.

and i don't think it's an old man, she had her picture up on display. and i also saw her profile on a website. it's POSSIBLE it was a guy, but highly doub it.

i used my other account on msn and pretended i was a friend asking why she blocked him.

she asked who my friend was, i told her... then boom... she blocked me. again. dude, what is the deal with some girls? one minute they fuking say you're hot and all, then they fuk you off. fuking b|tches.
 

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The devil himself can not understand women. So stop wasting your time on figuring out why some girl rejected you, and find a new girl to reject you :D
 

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yeah, i am over it now, she can fuk herself and get raped by a gang of aboriginals.

i just get pissed off because i meet alot of girls, just when we're hitting it off, they dissapear.
 

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Originally posted by Tails
yeah, i am over it now, she can fuk herself and get raped by a gang of aboriginals.
There's the aussie sprit. :rolleyes:

Originally posted by Tails
i just get pissed off because i meet alot of girls, just when we're hitting it off, they dissapear.
Now this girl you're talking about, you didn't just meet her on msn did you? C'mon, who give a fukk, she's just some online "chick".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeah, msn. just that i read her profile on a website, she seemed like a nice gal. HOE well.

i think might be starting to distant myself from girls.. sick of making so much effort to get them on a date or whatever. now everytime i talk to a girl, all i see is the devil in them and it scares me.
 

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Don't get caught up with her "rejection" because that's the road to insanity. Believe me, dwelling on it will annihilate your confidence!

And never think of any girl as "the one" or "her".
 

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Stop looking for girls online. Never trust people online. Never treat the net like it's real life.
 

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Originally posted by Tails
This really happens to me alot and I hate it.

I find a nice girl, she's got all the things I could want, cute, smart, funny, sweet, etc.

Just when you think you are in the good books, bang! It's over. Goodbye miss perfect. (like there really IS a miss perfect anyway, heh.)

Example: Just a few minutes ago, I was chatting to a girl who was all of the above. She lived close. Sounds perfect ya know?

We was chatting and all, I gave her my picture, she said I was hot. I asked for hers, she was sending it... then halfway, she went offline and it seems I am blocked on her list (MSN Messenger). This also happens in general. When I meet a girl in person, we go out, have fun, feels like I'm about to fall for her when she starts to just completely ignore me or some bullsh|t like that happens.

Fuk, I sometimes hate girls.
You fell for a girl you've never met?

Uhh....

BTW, as far as falling for girls and them starting to ignore you...maybe there's a pattern here. I noticed one with myself. :)
 

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that was just an example of what usually happens. i didn't say i fell for her. i don't fall for girls i don't know or have never met, that's impossible.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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