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Don Juan
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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nattaplaya
Guest
I don't get it.mintxx said:oh god. he reminds me of wootang finance or whatever
Zaraza
Senior Don Juan
dang buddy, don't you think you are being harsh on yourself? Instant gratification and quick results are one thing your body cant produce when it comes to exercising. don't hate yourself for being something many americans strive to be- skinny.
Zaraza
Senior Don Juan
bud_2005 said:Eggs are really expensive just a year or two ago you could get a dozen for under a dollar.
thats so true!!, i still love them. Lately i have been waking up in the morning and making myself scrambled eggs before i eat/cook anything else. The smell of eggs scrambled in the morning wakes me up.
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Hey man, I was in the same boat as you a few years ago. Graduated high school at 120 lbs, went to college and found the weight room. The best thing about starting skinny, is that you're NOT going to get fat from working out, and the muscle you put on looks huge. I'm 5'8 165 now and I think I have the (not to sound ****y, but...)perfect guy body. You'll get there through hard work and lots of food. Go to IronAddicts.com and check out there routines. Also look through some on here. Hard work will get u where u want to go.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
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I saw a really hot Italian girl with a skinny guy today, I think European girls prefer skinny guys than American women do.nattaplaya said:Every chick I know rather have a fat guy than a skinny guy.
I used to be skinny and have bulked up a fair bit in the past 2 years, seems to get less attention off girls but have way more confidence, odd.
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nattaplaya
Guest
I can't be too harsh on myself. But I do have confidence problems mainly because of my body image.
Zaraza
Senior Don Juan
how often do you work out right now?.
Cry For Love
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Go to a nude beach a few times, that will sort your body exposure phobia out.nattaplaya said:I can't be too harsh on myself. But I do have confidence problems mainly because of my body image.
Come on, lots of successful leaders have been skinny, and Arnold is fat not. Just enjoy the progress of becoming better, if you dont enjoy it then the end result wont please you either.
Being_the_Don
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What is your height and weight? Unless you're truly skinny, why worry about it?nattaplaya said:I can't be too harsh on myself. But I do have confidence problems mainly because of my body image.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.