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Don Juan
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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nattaplaya
Guest
I don't get it.mintxx said:oh god. he reminds me of wootang finance or whatever
Zaraza
Senior Don Juan
dang buddy, don't you think you are being harsh on yourself? Instant gratification and quick results are one thing your body cant produce when it comes to exercising. don't hate yourself for being something many americans strive to be- skinny.
Zaraza
Senior Don Juan
bud_2005 said:Eggs are really expensive just a year or two ago you could get a dozen for under a dollar.
thats so true!!, i still love them. Lately i have been waking up in the morning and making myself scrambled eggs before i eat/cook anything else. The smell of eggs scrambled in the morning wakes me up.
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Hey man, I was in the same boat as you a few years ago. Graduated high school at 120 lbs, went to college and found the weight room. The best thing about starting skinny, is that you're NOT going to get fat from working out, and the muscle you put on looks huge. I'm 5'8 165 now and I think I have the (not to sound ****y, but...)perfect guy body. You'll get there through hard work and lots of food. Go to IronAddicts.com and check out there routines. Also look through some on here. Hard work will get u where u want to go.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NickSCFC2000
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I saw a really hot Italian girl with a skinny guy today, I think European girls prefer skinny guys than American women do.nattaplaya said:Every chick I know rather have a fat guy than a skinny guy.
I used to be skinny and have bulked up a fair bit in the past 2 years, seems to get less attention off girls but have way more confidence, odd.
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nattaplaya
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I can't be too harsh on myself. But I do have confidence problems mainly because of my body image.
Zaraza
Senior Don Juan
how often do you work out right now?.
Cry For Love
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Go to a nude beach a few times, that will sort your body exposure phobia out.nattaplaya said:I can't be too harsh on myself. But I do have confidence problems mainly because of my body image.
Come on, lots of successful leaders have been skinny, and Arnold is fat not. Just enjoy the progress of becoming better, if you dont enjoy it then the end result wont please you either.
Being_the_Don
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What is your height and weight? Unless you're truly skinny, why worry about it?nattaplaya said:I can't be too harsh on myself. But I do have confidence problems mainly because of my body image.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.