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Don Juan
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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nattaplaya
Guest
I don't get it.mintxx said:oh god. he reminds me of wootang finance or whatever
Zaraza
Senior Don Juan
dang buddy, don't you think you are being harsh on yourself? Instant gratification and quick results are one thing your body cant produce when it comes to exercising. don't hate yourself for being something many americans strive to be- skinny.
Zaraza
Senior Don Juan
bud_2005 said:Eggs are really expensive just a year or two ago you could get a dozen for under a dollar.
thats so true!!, i still love them. Lately i have been waking up in the morning and making myself scrambled eggs before i eat/cook anything else. The smell of eggs scrambled in the morning wakes me up.
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
Hey man, I was in the same boat as you a few years ago. Graduated high school at 120 lbs, went to college and found the weight room. The best thing about starting skinny, is that you're NOT going to get fat from working out, and the muscle you put on looks huge. I'm 5'8 165 now and I think I have the (not to sound ****y, but...)perfect guy body. You'll get there through hard work and lots of food. Go to IronAddicts.com and check out there routines. Also look through some on here. Hard work will get u where u want to go.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
NickSCFC2000
Senior Don Juan
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I saw a really hot Italian girl with a skinny guy today, I think European girls prefer skinny guys than American women do.nattaplaya said:Every chick I know rather have a fat guy than a skinny guy.
I used to be skinny and have bulked up a fair bit in the past 2 years, seems to get less attention off girls but have way more confidence, odd.
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nattaplaya
Guest
I can't be too harsh on myself. But I do have confidence problems mainly because of my body image.
Zaraza
Senior Don Juan
how often do you work out right now?.
Cry For Love
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Go to a nude beach a few times, that will sort your body exposure phobia out.nattaplaya said:I can't be too harsh on myself. But I do have confidence problems mainly because of my body image.
Come on, lots of successful leaders have been skinny, and Arnold is fat not. Just enjoy the progress of becoming better, if you dont enjoy it then the end result wont please you either.
Being_the_Don
Master Don Juan
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What is your height and weight? Unless you're truly skinny, why worry about it?nattaplaya said:I can't be too harsh on myself. But I do have confidence problems mainly because of my body image.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.