I party till I was sh**faced for the first time, had sex for the first time, and ended up staying the night at a chicks house for the first time, all last night. It was pretty cool. I pretty much tried to apply all the s*** I learned from this site and other sites, and everything pretty much worked out. The only thing that sucked was that I couldnt come when I was having sex, but I was too drunk to really care at the time. Other than that everything was pretty cool. IM NO LONGER A VIRGIN! YES!!!!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I had sex for the first time last night
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
squirrels
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How old are you?
Was it everything you thought it would be?
Was it everything you thought it would be?
AlwaysExcel
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Congratulations bro! Feels good to experience success huh?
Could you post details that you remember? Like what things from the site you applied, when you did them, and how she reacted?
I feel ya on the not coming. When I first got laid, I fvcked the girl in every position I could think of, trying to come. After 30 minutes of humping, I turned her over on her stomach with her legs closed and my legs clamped around her legs. I finally got enough friction fvcking her this way to be able to come.
Could you post details that you remember? Like what things from the site you applied, when you did them, and how she reacted?
I feel ya on the not coming. When I first got laid, I fvcked the girl in every position I could think of, trying to come. After 30 minutes of humping, I turned her over on her stomach with her legs closed and my legs clamped around her legs. I finally got enough friction fvcking her this way to be able to come.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm 18, but yea I've been thinking about the thing all day long. It was definitly what I expected, except for the not coming part. I generally read Pook's tips (of course), capt. Jack sparrows always assume shes interested, interpol's Intro to ONS: What Every College Student Should Know, and I read DJ Ben's Stop thinking, Start doing post right before I left. I also was reading Men's Health's interview/advice column which had Billy Bob Thornton as the advice giver (he said something that women like arrogant men or something). The main thing that helped me out the most was getting into the right mindset and occupying my brain with music or something to keep from thinking worry/negative thoughts. And of course not thinking of the chick as some godess, not kissing her ass, but being ****y/funny, thinking of myself as the s***, etc helped out.
LuvMyArmyMan
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Congrats, always exciting. I bet u cant wait to do it again!