I party till I was sh**faced for the first time, had sex for the first time, and ended up staying the night at a chicks house for the first time, all last night. It was pretty cool. I pretty much tried to apply all the s*** I learned from this site and other sites, and everything pretty much worked out. The only thing that sucked was that I couldnt come when I was having sex, but I was too drunk to really care at the time. Other than that everything was pretty cool. IM NO LONGER A VIRGIN! YES!!!!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I had sex for the first time last night
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
squirrels
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How old are you?
Was it everything you thought it would be?
Was it everything you thought it would be?
AlwaysExcel
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Congratulations bro! Feels good to experience success huh?
Could you post details that you remember? Like what things from the site you applied, when you did them, and how she reacted?
I feel ya on the not coming. When I first got laid, I fvcked the girl in every position I could think of, trying to come. After 30 minutes of humping, I turned her over on her stomach with her legs closed and my legs clamped around her legs. I finally got enough friction fvcking her this way to be able to come.
Could you post details that you remember? Like what things from the site you applied, when you did them, and how she reacted?
I feel ya on the not coming. When I first got laid, I fvcked the girl in every position I could think of, trying to come. After 30 minutes of humping, I turned her over on her stomach with her legs closed and my legs clamped around her legs. I finally got enough friction fvcking her this way to be able to come.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm 18, but yea I've been thinking about the thing all day long. It was definitly what I expected, except for the not coming part. I generally read Pook's tips (of course), capt. Jack sparrows always assume shes interested, interpol's Intro to ONS: What Every College Student Should Know, and I read DJ Ben's Stop thinking, Start doing post right before I left. I also was reading Men's Health's interview/advice column which had Billy Bob Thornton as the advice giver (he said something that women like arrogant men or something). The main thing that helped me out the most was getting into the right mindset and occupying my brain with music or something to keep from thinking worry/negative thoughts. And of course not thinking of the chick as some godess, not kissing her ass, but being ****y/funny, thinking of myself as the s***, etc helped out.
LuvMyArmyMan
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Congrats, always exciting. I bet u cant wait to do it again!