"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I guess life is ironic sometimes.....

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mystic03

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Since joining SoSuave I've been thinking of something: the whole women subject is really ironic. When you want a woman because you need one you'll never get it (well, no the one you're looking for) and when you improve yourself (like reading the posts, reading the DJ Bible and getting help from other djs) and finally realize that you don't need them is when you actually get one.
Maybe it's because you really were looking to find yourself not her!!
So maybe that's the big problem that guys (me included) are going trough, we are trying to find someone like ourselves but in the end we come empty handed because we, either, don't find that woman because it doesn't exist or becasue we are really looking for ourselves out there....

Does this make any sense to any of you???
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Caveman

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Ever wonder why no girl ever even looks at you when you're single while all woman seem to be looking at you when you're in love or dating someone?

You are radiating happiness. That is where the real attraction appears.

What happened is: You stopped being desperate and started to get your own life on track and improving to make yourself happy.

Girls don't want someone who needs them. They want someone they can need. They want a guy that has his life on track so he can look after her instead of whining about his own failure of a life.

Either way, since you wrote this post, I think you are making things work for yourself so: thumbs up to you.
 
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Slickster

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Ahhh yes Daniel-san. You learn very quickly. :)

A man desperate for a woman is an unattractive man.
 
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