"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I guess life is ironic sometimes.....

mystic03

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Since joining SoSuave I've been thinking of something: the whole women subject is really ironic. When you want a woman because you need one you'll never get it (well, no the one you're looking for) and when you improve yourself (like reading the posts, reading the DJ Bible and getting help from other djs) and finally realize that you don't need them is when you actually get one.
Maybe it's because you really were looking to find yourself not her!!
So maybe that's the big problem that guys (me included) are going trough, we are trying to find someone like ourselves but in the end we come empty handed because we, either, don't find that woman because it doesn't exist or becasue we are really looking for ourselves out there....

Does this make any sense to any of you???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Caveman

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Ever wonder why no girl ever even looks at you when you're single while all woman seem to be looking at you when you're in love or dating someone?

You are radiating happiness. That is where the real attraction appears.

What happened is: You stopped being desperate and started to get your own life on track and improving to make yourself happy.

Girls don't want someone who needs them. They want someone they can need. They want a guy that has his life on track so he can look after her instead of whining about his own failure of a life.

Either way, since you wrote this post, I think you are making things work for yourself so: thumbs up to you.
 

Slickster

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Ahhh yes Daniel-san. You learn very quickly. :)

A man desperate for a woman is an unattractive man.
 
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