"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I guess it's time..

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Well, I've read the DJ bible, and learned a lot of things I've probably been doing wrong for so long. I've been holding out for a while by actually getting started by just saying 'hi' to random people @ a mall for instance. Well, f*ck it, tonite I'm gonna start. There is this huge party that will be happening later tonite, I figure this should be an easier start. I will try to go around and meet as many people as I can instead of my usual self who just sticks to one corner and doesn't try to meet people. Well sorry for the n00b post but I had to get that off my chest :lol:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Let us know how it goes man.

Write a report tomorrow...
 

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Im doing the same thing at the mall tonight. I have held back but tonight Fvck it who cares about rejection and all that Sh1t it isnt like I am out there to find my soul mate or any thing, Im just out to have fun.


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Yeah, do what a man has to do and approach...but don't just say hi -- you have to go further and make a few comments and proclamations and ask questions to see if a girl is interested - small talk you know.
 
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