"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

I guess it's time..

J

James01

New Member
Joined
Jan 10, 2004
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
Well, I've read the DJ bible, and learned a lot of things I've probably been doing wrong for so long. I've been holding out for a while by actually getting started by just saying 'hi' to random people @ a mall for instance. Well, f*ck it, tonite I'm gonna start. There is this huge party that will be happening later tonite, I figure this should be an easier start. I will try to go around and meet as many people as I can instead of my usual self who just sticks to one corner and doesn't try to meet people. Well sorry for the n00b post but I had to get that off my chest :lol:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

S

silverwex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 27, 2003
Messages
1,306
Reaction score
5
Age
44
Location
Eire
Let us know how it goes man.

Write a report tomorrow...
 
4

4afe

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 6, 2004
Messages
116
Reaction score
1
Age
41
Location
AZ
Im doing the same thing at the mall tonight. I have held back but tonight Fvck it who cares about rejection and all that Sh1t it isnt like I am out there to find my soul mate or any thing, Im just out to have fun.


Ryan
 
P

PuertoRican_Lover

Banned
Joined
Nov 6, 2003
Messages
4,280
Reaction score
8
Location
Wisconsin. USA
Yeah, do what a man has to do and approach...but don't just say hi -- you have to go further and make a few comments and proclamations and ask questions to see if a girl is interested - small talk you know.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top