"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Superman X
Hahaha, what a stroke of genius huge-guy. Of course, why didn't I realize before that socializing and having fun and having sex are really dumb things. There's really no need for them at all! It's much better to THINK that you could do all these things, and post about it on sosuave!

Thanks so much huge-guy. You've changed my life. Now I'm enlightened like you guys. I'm going to cancel my meet with that girl I met yesterday, skip my frat's party tonight, and go jerk off to fat chicks instead. Enlightened!

-Dan
no no no, you need to go with them and just sit down somewhere and stare at people CONFIDENTLY, so they know your a confident man and you dont care about what happens, cancelling would make you look like afc !:p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by nzalan
So where's this ASF and can I visit too? Anywhere has gotta be better than where people believe thinking is better than doing. I've never seen such rubbish before. As in the words of a famous space marine: "How do I get outta this chicken sh*t outfit?"
u know, smilies serve a purpose:mad:
 

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Nzalen -- it's good to see someone actually interested in improving. mASF can be found at http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion. You should read the player guide before you post, which can be found by going to the fastseduction homepage and clicking on the player guide link.

What more important, though, is that you join the lair in the nearest metropolitan area to you. It's the best and fastest way to improve, and unlike workshops, its free. If you're in the Boston Area, I can tell you how to join our lair. If you're in another lair, they don't have yahoo groups, so you'd have to search around to find how to join their email lists.

-Dan
 

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I'm an Aussie living in New Zealand. I don't think we have 'lairs' out here. :D If we did, we'd call them something different, like maybe "a bunch of like-minded guys hanging out to drink in a pub and talk about stuff". Over this part of the world, we don't always use the same words as Americans, especially when the usage of those words would have us shunned by society. 'Americanism' is a disease over here that most resident Americans quickly adapt away from.

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Actually, "lair" isn't really an American word for the group of guys you roll with...its just the cloak-and-dagger internet geek ASF slang term for a bunch of PUAs who meet up to sarge. And actually, Austraila is a big center for PU. Check out www.auseduction.com for more info on Austrailian lairs and PUAs. I don't know if New Zealand PUAs post on that site, or if it would be possible for you to meet up with guys in Sydney or Melboure or whatever though. Forgive my ignorance of the geography "down under," we don't concern ourselves with all those weird foreign countries here in the upstanding, righteous land of God's chosen people otherwise called the US.

;)

-Dan
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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