"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Superman X
Hahaha, what a stroke of genius huge-guy. Of course, why didn't I realize before that socializing and having fun and having sex are really dumb things. There's really no need for them at all! It's much better to THINK that you could do all these things, and post about it on sosuave!

Thanks so much huge-guy. You've changed my life. Now I'm enlightened like you guys. I'm going to cancel my meet with that girl I met yesterday, skip my frat's party tonight, and go jerk off to fat chicks instead. Enlightened!

-Dan
no no no, you need to go with them and just sit down somewhere and stare at people CONFIDENTLY, so they know your a confident man and you dont care about what happens, cancelling would make you look like afc !:p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by nzalan
So where's this ASF and can I visit too? Anywhere has gotta be better than where people believe thinking is better than doing. I've never seen such rubbish before. As in the words of a famous space marine: "How do I get outta this chicken sh*t outfit?"
u know, smilies serve a purpose:mad:
 

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Nzalen -- it's good to see someone actually interested in improving. mASF can be found at http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion. You should read the player guide before you post, which can be found by going to the fastseduction homepage and clicking on the player guide link.

What more important, though, is that you join the lair in the nearest metropolitan area to you. It's the best and fastest way to improve, and unlike workshops, its free. If you're in the Boston Area, I can tell you how to join our lair. If you're in another lair, they don't have yahoo groups, so you'd have to search around to find how to join their email lists.

-Dan
 

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I'm an Aussie living in New Zealand. I don't think we have 'lairs' out here. :D If we did, we'd call them something different, like maybe "a bunch of like-minded guys hanging out to drink in a pub and talk about stuff". Over this part of the world, we don't always use the same words as Americans, especially when the usage of those words would have us shunned by society. 'Americanism' is a disease over here that most resident Americans quickly adapt away from.

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Actually, "lair" isn't really an American word for the group of guys you roll with...its just the cloak-and-dagger internet geek ASF slang term for a bunch of PUAs who meet up to sarge. And actually, Austraila is a big center for PU. Check out www.auseduction.com for more info on Austrailian lairs and PUAs. I don't know if New Zealand PUAs post on that site, or if it would be possible for you to meet up with guys in Sydney or Melboure or whatever though. Forgive my ignorance of the geography "down under," we don't concern ourselves with all those weird foreign countries here in the upstanding, righteous land of God's chosen people otherwise called the US.

;)

-Dan
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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