"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I got laid tonight!

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First time for me.. just thought I'd let everyone know :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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:crackup:

(rolling on the god damn floor)

So motafvcka what do you want a cookie?
 
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You want a goddamn trophy? Or a goddamn award ceremony in your honor?

Cheers anyway! NBC Ya!

What am I saying? Congratulations! You deserve your props.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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YES tell the story, was it a good fling or was it 3 min's?? just curious lol.

But Congrats to you man good job ...too bad we cant say the same thing for your virginity :( he had no chance .
 
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whats really does not settle with me is the fact that women on sosuave are rejoicing/congratulating and feeling happy for some GUY who got laid for the first time. There is something just wrong about this. I mean this is just the not the way of things. congratulating is a man's job...women don't get involved in all of this. Is sosuave resposnible for turning women in to 'man mentality?? I'm worried.
 
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ducaro said:
whats really does not settle with me is the fact that women on sosuave are rejoicing/congratulating and feeling happy for some GUY who got laid for the first time. There is something just wrong about this. I mean this is just the not the way of things. congratulating is a man's job...women don't get involved in all of this. Is sosuave resposnible for turning women in to 'man mentality?? I'm worried.
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Overthink things much? Get a life, bro.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Master Bates said:
Overthink things much? Get a life, bro.
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no this does not require overthinking at all. Just simply thinking is enough.
 
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I never understood why guys brag if you will about this stuff.
It's as if the just climbed Mount Everest or something.

Take care.
 
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Instead of congratulating the person for his well done job, some of you decided to criticize him. Would you not be the same people teasing him of being a virgin and never seen a pu55y? Why don't you all applaud him for job well done? Hey T-Mack, congratulation.
 
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T-Mack said:
First time for me.. just thought I'd let everyone know :)
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Correction: You didn't get "laid" - you "layed" her!! Unless you are a female!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I remember my first time. The best minute of my life!!!

Please give us details.
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You've got 56 seconds on me, man.




Anyway, yeah, congratulations, guy. Give us the story.
 
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Okay, so some of you wanted to hear details. I’ve been working this Japanese foreign exchange chick for a few weeks. Her roommate has been a really bad **** block lately so taking her back to her place was not a good option. The only other place I could think of was mine. I live with my parents. Before I went to go pick her up I told my parents I was going to have a girl coming over. They were cool with it and didn’t bother us the whole night. I have a younger brother as well who has a room right next to mine.

He came home around 12 at night before any action started. I said look bro you got to go find some other place to stay. Then he leaves to stay the night at his friends. My parents are in bed at this point and there room is on the opposite side of the house. They would never hear a thing from my side of the house. I locked my door and then we started making out. Then about two minutes later our clothes is on the floor and were in my bed naked.

I always hear stories about guys lasting only a minute during there first time. That wasn’t the case for me. I started going at it around 2 am and when I finished it was close to 5 in the morning. I felt like I was running a marathon! I noticed she started bleeding when we first started getting into it, which makes me think she might have been a virgin or just hasn’t had sex in awhile. I remembered to put on my raincoat though :) Other than seeing some blood, it was awesome! I took her home afterwards and put my sheets in the wash.

The next day my brother tells me that mom asked him at the breakfast table if I got laid last night. Then she says I know he got some because he put his sheets in the wash and they both started laughing about it. Bro also told me my dad said at least I know my son is a man now. I’m sure I’ll be laying this girl for the next 3 months that she is here and probably others as well :)
 
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John-467 said:
:crackup:

(rolling on the god damn floor)

So motafvcka what do you want a cookie?
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Shut the f*ck up hater. He posted it because he felt like posting it. If you stopped hating you might actually eventually get laid too. And good job man T-Mack. But dude, could we get some details? Like how long did you know the girl and how did it happen? I'm just curious.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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