"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I got her email..now what?

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big_jeffry

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Ok, so I used Dave D's technique to ask for the email instead of the phone number, and she gave it to me without any resistance what-so-ever. Where do I go from this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Email her :crackup:

Come on man. Tell her a little about yourself, dont go into detail, but also talk about how good it was to meet her. Cover some of the convo you had again commenting on it, this will give her some familiarality in the email. Then you can do one of two things await her reply or as i would do give her your cell number.

Dont explain why you giving it just say here is my cell number talk to you soon. This show her you trust her enough to let her a little closer into your life. You will probably find she emails you back with her cell. Women dont like that first big step, but well done on getting the email.

Ricard
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why why why do guys go in with half a plan? Is it that they don't believe that they will ever be able to get further or what? Heavens forbid that he asks for a date and she says "yes!"

Not trying to hate but come on fellas, go in with a plan! Stop sarging half @ssed! Yeah, getting a number or an email addy is an accomplishment but that's barely the first inning of the game!
 
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