"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I got her email..now what?

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big_jeffry

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Ok, so I used Dave D's technique to ask for the email instead of the phone number, and she gave it to me without any resistance what-so-ever. Where do I go from this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ricard78

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Email her :crackup:

Come on man. Tell her a little about yourself, dont go into detail, but also talk about how good it was to meet her. Cover some of the convo you had again commenting on it, this will give her some familiarality in the email. Then you can do one of two things await her reply or as i would do give her your cell number.

Dont explain why you giving it just say here is my cell number talk to you soon. This show her you trust her enough to let her a little closer into your life. You will probably find she emails you back with her cell. Women dont like that first big step, but well done on getting the email.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why why why do guys go in with half a plan? Is it that they don't believe that they will ever be able to get further or what? Heavens forbid that he asks for a date and she says "yes!"

Not trying to hate but come on fellas, go in with a plan! Stop sarging half @ssed! Yeah, getting a number or an email addy is an accomplishment but that's barely the first inning of the game!
 
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