"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I got her email..now what?

big_jeffry

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Ok, so I used Dave D's technique to ask for the email instead of the phone number, and she gave it to me without any resistance what-so-ever. Where do I go from this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ricard78

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Email her :crackup:

Come on man. Tell her a little about yourself, dont go into detail, but also talk about how good it was to meet her. Cover some of the convo you had again commenting on it, this will give her some familiarality in the email. Then you can do one of two things await her reply or as i would do give her your cell number.

Dont explain why you giving it just say here is my cell number talk to you soon. This show her you trust her enough to let her a little closer into your life. You will probably find she emails you back with her cell. Women dont like that first big step, but well done on getting the email.

Ricard
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Why why why do guys go in with half a plan? Is it that they don't believe that they will ever be able to get further or what? Heavens forbid that he asks for a date and she says "yes!"

Not trying to hate but come on fellas, go in with a plan! Stop sarging half @ssed! Yeah, getting a number or an email addy is an accomplishment but that's barely the first inning of the game!
 
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