"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I got a woman's number the other day..can't see her in 2 weeks..

ryannath

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I got a woman's number the other day and she wants to see me BAD. She offered her # to me on her own. I didn't even ask for it. She even said "when is a good time to get together?" in an email to me.

I told her I will call her soon, but the truth is, I can't see her in two weeks because I am really busy with work.

My question is should I call her in couple days even though I can't see her in two weeks?

Or should I call her in two weeks and set up a meeting when I will be able to actually go see her?

What would you guys do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ryannath

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Thanks for the responses. More would be nice. Just give me your opinion people....I would appreciate it.

Btw, she just sent me another email "Can't wait to see you soon!"

I know I have her in the palm of my hand but I think she will be disappointed that I can't see her in awhile.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just be honest with her. Call her up, have a brief conversation, tell her your schedule is pretty busy for the next couple weeks but let her know you're still interested in getting together. The anticipation may drive her crazy if her interest level is that high.
 

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It's good to call and let her know it will be a bit before you see her. It builds tension because it's alot different than most guys who call right away and beg for a weekend date right away.

You are holding off on her which is good.
 
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