"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I got a woman's number the other day..can't see her in 2 weeks..

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I got a woman's number the other day and she wants to see me BAD. She offered her # to me on her own. I didn't even ask for it. She even said "when is a good time to get together?" in an email to me.

I told her I will call her soon, but the truth is, I can't see her in two weeks because I am really busy with work.

My question is should I call her in couple days even though I can't see her in two weeks?

Or should I call her in two weeks and set up a meeting when I will be able to actually go see her?

What would you guys do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thanks for the responses. More would be nice. Just give me your opinion people....I would appreciate it.

Btw, she just sent me another email "Can't wait to see you soon!"

I know I have her in the palm of my hand but I think she will be disappointed that I can't see her in awhile.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just be honest with her. Call her up, have a brief conversation, tell her your schedule is pretty busy for the next couple weeks but let her know you're still interested in getting together. The anticipation may drive her crazy if her interest level is that high.
 
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It's good to call and let her know it will be a bit before you see her. It builds tension because it's alot different than most guys who call right away and beg for a weekend date right away.

You are holding off on her which is good.
 
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