"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I got a woman's number the other day..can't see her in 2 weeks..

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I got a woman's number the other day and she wants to see me BAD. She offered her # to me on her own. I didn't even ask for it. She even said "when is a good time to get together?" in an email to me.

I told her I will call her soon, but the truth is, I can't see her in two weeks because I am really busy with work.

My question is should I call her in couple days even though I can't see her in two weeks?

Or should I call her in two weeks and set up a meeting when I will be able to actually go see her?

What would you guys do?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ryannath

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Thanks for the responses. More would be nice. Just give me your opinion people....I would appreciate it.

Btw, she just sent me another email "Can't wait to see you soon!"

I know I have her in the palm of my hand but I think she will be disappointed that I can't see her in awhile.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just be honest with her. Call her up, have a brief conversation, tell her your schedule is pretty busy for the next couple weeks but let her know you're still interested in getting together. The anticipation may drive her crazy if her interest level is that high.
 

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It's good to call and let her know it will be a bit before you see her. It builds tension because it's alot different than most guys who call right away and beg for a weekend date right away.

You are holding off on her which is good.
 
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