"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I got a woman's number the other day..can't see her in 2 weeks..

ryannath

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I got a woman's number the other day and she wants to see me BAD. She offered her # to me on her own. I didn't even ask for it. She even said "when is a good time to get together?" in an email to me.

I told her I will call her soon, but the truth is, I can't see her in two weeks because I am really busy with work.

My question is should I call her in couple days even though I can't see her in two weeks?

Or should I call her in two weeks and set up a meeting when I will be able to actually go see her?

What would you guys do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ryannath

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Thanks for the responses. More would be nice. Just give me your opinion people....I would appreciate it.

Btw, she just sent me another email "Can't wait to see you soon!"

I know I have her in the palm of my hand but I think she will be disappointed that I can't see her in awhile.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just be honest with her. Call her up, have a brief conversation, tell her your schedule is pretty busy for the next couple weeks but let her know you're still interested in getting together. The anticipation may drive her crazy if her interest level is that high.
 

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It's good to call and let her know it will be a bit before you see her. It builds tension because it's alot different than most guys who call right away and beg for a weekend date right away.

You are holding off on her which is good.
 
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