"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I got a STD - Need Advice

steviecruiser

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So it turns out I have chlamydia/gonnaria... I could have gotten it from only 2 girls I have messed with this past month. The first girl I messed with about 3 weeks ago... she seemed promiscous... she gave me oral sex and we had direct genital contact before I put a condom on..... I am thinking thats where I got it from..... however a week ago I did another girl who seemed to be less promiscuous... I used a condom but then I took it off and had her give me the most intense bj ever.... Well a few days later I started having the symptoms.... so I'm not sure where i got it from... i told the 1st girl to get tested but haven't said anything to the second girl cause I like her.. But if the 1st girl turns out to not have anything then its gotta be from the 2nd girl....

So my questions are this

Can chlamydia/gonnaria be passed to a male from a girl giving him oral sex?

and

Can chlamydia/gonnaria be passed to a female if she gives a male oral and swallows his semen?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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eaglez1177

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Wow that really really sucks bro. Good luck to you.
 

S.Y.L

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Go see a doctor, you can get rid of that, its cureable
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mr_rogers

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Don't wait to tell the 2nd girl. She should be getting tested immediately - it's not up to you to decide to tell her or not when it's her health on the line.
 

hover411

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yeah, tell the 2nd girl, otherwise karma will get you back even worse. she has a right to know.

if you think about it, she needs to be notified in either scenario.
 

sodbuster

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Simple logical progression. If the first girl had it,you do and gave it to girl#2. If not then girl #2 gave it to you. BUT SHE HAS IT NOW for sure
 

sheep-man

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yeah clamidia. it sucks ive been there 2 pills and its gone, u can get it from oral and u can transfer it too oral
 
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