"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I got a STD - Need Advice

steviecruiser

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So it turns out I have chlamydia/gonnaria... I could have gotten it from only 2 girls I have messed with this past month. The first girl I messed with about 3 weeks ago... she seemed promiscous... she gave me oral sex and we had direct genital contact before I put a condom on..... I am thinking thats where I got it from..... however a week ago I did another girl who seemed to be less promiscuous... I used a condom but then I took it off and had her give me the most intense bj ever.... Well a few days later I started having the symptoms.... so I'm not sure where i got it from... i told the 1st girl to get tested but haven't said anything to the second girl cause I like her.. But if the 1st girl turns out to not have anything then its gotta be from the 2nd girl....

So my questions are this

Can chlamydia/gonnaria be passed to a male from a girl giving him oral sex?

and

Can chlamydia/gonnaria be passed to a female if she gives a male oral and swallows his semen?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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eaglez1177

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Wow that really really sucks bro. Good luck to you.
 

S.Y.L

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Go see a doctor, you can get rid of that, its cureable
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mr_rogers

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Don't wait to tell the 2nd girl. She should be getting tested immediately - it's not up to you to decide to tell her or not when it's her health on the line.
 

hover411

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yeah, tell the 2nd girl, otherwise karma will get you back even worse. she has a right to know.

if you think about it, she needs to be notified in either scenario.
 

sodbuster

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Simple logical progression. If the first girl had it,you do and gave it to girl#2. If not then girl #2 gave it to you. BUT SHE HAS IT NOW for sure
 

sheep-man

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yeah clamidia. it sucks ive been there 2 pills and its gone, u can get it from oral and u can transfer it too oral
 
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