"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I got a STD - Need Advice

steviecruiser

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So it turns out I have chlamydia/gonnaria... I could have gotten it from only 2 girls I have messed with this past month. The first girl I messed with about 3 weeks ago... she seemed promiscous... she gave me oral sex and we had direct genital contact before I put a condom on..... I am thinking thats where I got it from..... however a week ago I did another girl who seemed to be less promiscuous... I used a condom but then I took it off and had her give me the most intense bj ever.... Well a few days later I started having the symptoms.... so I'm not sure where i got it from... i told the 1st girl to get tested but haven't said anything to the second girl cause I like her.. But if the 1st girl turns out to not have anything then its gotta be from the 2nd girl....

So my questions are this

Can chlamydia/gonnaria be passed to a male from a girl giving him oral sex?

and

Can chlamydia/gonnaria be passed to a female if she gives a male oral and swallows his semen?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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eaglez1177

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Wow that really really sucks bro. Good luck to you.
 

S.Y.L

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Go see a doctor, you can get rid of that, its cureable
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr_rogers

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Don't wait to tell the 2nd girl. She should be getting tested immediately - it's not up to you to decide to tell her or not when it's her health on the line.
 

hover411

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yeah, tell the 2nd girl, otherwise karma will get you back even worse. she has a right to know.

if you think about it, she needs to be notified in either scenario.
 

sodbuster

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Simple logical progression. If the first girl had it,you do and gave it to girl#2. If not then girl #2 gave it to you. BUT SHE HAS IT NOW for sure
 

sheep-man

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yeah clamidia. it sucks ive been there 2 pills and its gone, u can get it from oral and u can transfer it too oral
 
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