"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You are giving her too much attention.

This is why I told you less than two or three nights ago to say that last one liner, then leave her alone for a few days. A FEW DAYS, homie!!! LET HER MISS YOU!

And yes, way too much texting, cut that sh!t short.

Why did she ask if you have your priorities straight? What was that in response to? :confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't want my age to show, but why is your last name such a big concern?

Ok, if you've committed a felony, yes this two pages of thread on avoiding telling your last name to her makes perfect sense. Besides that, it definitely does not!
 
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iqqi said:
You are giving her too much attention.

This is why I told you less than two or three nights ago to say that last one liner, then leave her alone for a few days. A FEW DAYS, homie!!! LET HER MISS YOU!

And yes, way too much texting, cut that sh!t short.

Why did she ask if you have your priorities straight? What was that in response to? :confused:
she asked me if I was at work, and I told her I was late to my a$$ modeling gig. Then she came out left field w/ "Oh. I guess you need to get your priorities straight then" I never responded to that. Maybe the a$$ modeling joke was going too far. I don't give a damn, she has a stick up her butt or something.

And Az I gave her my name today, it was just fun just messing with her.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
she asked me if I was at work, and I told her I was late to my a$$ modeling gig. Then she came of left field w/ "Oh. I guess you need to get your priorities straight then" I never responded to that. Maybe the a$$ modeling joke was going too far. I don't give a damn, she has a stick up her butt or something.

And Az I gave her my name today, it was just fun just messing with her.
Hmm. Maybe that was HER way of being funny, as in you should not be texting her, and should be at your a$$ modeling gig.

I would've just replied "Oh believe me. I have my priorities straight."

Then left it at that.

A guy said that to me once, with the meaning that I was his #1 priority. It was flattering enough to make me date him for 3 months, 2 of which I tried to convince myself that I didn't actually hate him. Ok hate is a strong word, but he was annoying as hell! Still, "I have my priorities straight." Sigh.
 
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Hmm. Maybe that was HER way of being funny, as in you should not be texting her, and should be at your a$$ modeling gig.

She has one stiff sense of humor. This lady is most definitely in need of a MNIN 3 hour special.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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When a chick asks for your last name, just tell her: "Don't worry, it'll go well with your first name" or anything that alludes to her being obsessed with getting married to you. Or better, make one up that turns into a joke name when combined with her firstname and tease her about it.

I kinda like this chick's sense of humour.
 
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When a chick asks for your last name, just tell her: "Don't worry, it'll go well with your first name" or anything that alludes to her being obsessed with getting married to you. Or better, make one up that turns into a joke name when combined with her firstname and tease her about it.

I kinda like this chick's sense of humour.

yeah I'm not worrying about these texts anymore.. she needs a ride on the MNIN express. I just need to worry about her saying "come and get me saturday" I put the offer out there already.
 
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because I talked to her yesterday on the phone and I told her I'll pick her up Saturday night @ her place. She said "we could do that" but she "may have to work" and she will find out today or tomorrow if she has to work or not.

What do you think?
I don't know man. The women I go out with know their work schedule and would make plans around it one way or another. My gut tells me that this one would use this excuse as a place holder in case she gets a better offer. I still say that women who are truly interested will set something in stone with you; if not the date/time you suggest, a specific counter offer.
Personally, I would have picked a different date while on the phone with her and went out with a different woman on Saturday.
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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You remind me of Shermanator from American Pie
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I don't know man. The women I go out with know their work schedule and would make plans around it one way or another. My gut tells me that this one would use this excuse as a place holder in case she gets a better offer. I still say that women who are truly interested will set something in stone with you; if not the date/time you suggest, a specific counter offer.
Personally, I would have picked a different date while on the phone with her and went out with a different woman on Saturday.
Yes, Francisco, but 2 can play that game. I needed to know if we are on for Saturday because I have another girl I could go out with.

I told this secret agent woman when we spoke on the phone I need to get my weekend planned. She said "why you have another date"?

I didn't tell her the truth I just said I had to help a buddy move.

Truth is I could call and set up a date with another woman, but since this one is stalling I'm not sure what to do. So I went ahead and made a date with the other girl Sunday.

So IF this girl accepts the date with me Saturday night and things go well, it could get very interesting making my date with the new girl on Sunday.

Maybe the agent girl suspects I have another girl interested in me so she is going to stall until the last second and then tell me the date for Sat night is on.
 

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Wow, this is an extremely elaborate thread for a girl you haven't met before. Good to see we're not over-thinking, here!
 

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Yes, Francisco, but 2 can play that game. I needed to know if we are on for Saturday because I have another girl I could go out with.[/qoute]
So, what are you waiting for? The first woman to call in with the right answer (i.e. "yes") wins a prize (that would be you). The one that snoozes, loses.
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I told this secret agent woman when we spoke on the phone I need to get my weekend planned. She said "why you have another date"?
You should have answered "Don't know yet, are you free?" Would have nipped it in the bud right then and there.
My Name is Nobody said:
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I didn't tell her the truth I just said I had to help a buddy move.
I hope she's blond for your sake.
My Name is Nobody said:
Truth is I could call and set up a date with another woman, but since this one is stalling I'm not sure what to do. So I went ahead and made a date with the other girl Sunday.
And this is the problem you run into by always leaving the ball in her court. If she was busy on Saturday you should have set up a date with her on Sunday and go out with the other one on Saturday instead of Sunday. You would have had both days booked and you wouldn't be waiting on this chick to decide what she wants to do with the ball.
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So IF this girl accepts the date with me Saturday night and things go well, it could get very interesting making my date with the new girl on Sunday.
And if Hillary wins the election all of our problems will be solved. :rolleyes:
Damn, did I say that out loud? :nervous:
 
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Wow, this is an extremely elaborate thread for a girl you haven't met before. Good to see we're not over-thinking, here!
What are you smoking?

Not only did I meet her already, I kissed closed her in under 2 hours.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ahh, I I thought I read someone say that your first meeting was going to be this Saturday, and she didn't even have your name yet. Still, putting your interaction line for line in real time on a message board is sketchy at best.
 
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Still, putting your interaction line for line in real time on a message board is sketchy at best.
Yeah it's not a good idea.
 

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as usual with MNIN, WAY too much attention for a girl who plays games...couldn't you just play it by ear for once?
 

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as usual with MNIN, WAY too much attention for a girl who plays games...couldn't you just play it by ear for once?
Three letters...

N-Y-E.... :whistle:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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