"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I got a date with a secret operative

iqqi

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You are giving her too much attention.

This is why I told you less than two or three nights ago to say that last one liner, then leave her alone for a few days. A FEW DAYS, homie!!! LET HER MISS YOU!

And yes, way too much texting, cut that sh!t short.

Why did she ask if you have your priorities straight? What was that in response to? :confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't want my age to show, but why is your last name such a big concern?

Ok, if you've committed a felony, yes this two pages of thread on avoiding telling your last name to her makes perfect sense. Besides that, it definitely does not!
 
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iqqi said:
You are giving her too much attention.

This is why I told you less than two or three nights ago to say that last one liner, then leave her alone for a few days. A FEW DAYS, homie!!! LET HER MISS YOU!

And yes, way too much texting, cut that sh!t short.

Why did she ask if you have your priorities straight? What was that in response to? :confused:
she asked me if I was at work, and I told her I was late to my a$$ modeling gig. Then she came out left field w/ "Oh. I guess you need to get your priorities straight then" I never responded to that. Maybe the a$$ modeling joke was going too far. I don't give a damn, she has a stick up her butt or something.

And Az I gave her my name today, it was just fun just messing with her.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
she asked me if I was at work, and I told her I was late to my a$$ modeling gig. Then she came of left field w/ "Oh. I guess you need to get your priorities straight then" I never responded to that. Maybe the a$$ modeling joke was going too far. I don't give a damn, she has a stick up her butt or something.

And Az I gave her my name today, it was just fun just messing with her.
Hmm. Maybe that was HER way of being funny, as in you should not be texting her, and should be at your a$$ modeling gig.

I would've just replied "Oh believe me. I have my priorities straight."

Then left it at that.

A guy said that to me once, with the meaning that I was his #1 priority. It was flattering enough to make me date him for 3 months, 2 of which I tried to convince myself that I didn't actually hate him. Ok hate is a strong word, but he was annoying as hell! Still, "I have my priorities straight." Sigh.
 
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Hmm. Maybe that was HER way of being funny, as in you should not be texting her, and should be at your a$$ modeling gig.

She has one stiff sense of humor. This lady is most definitely in need of a MNIN 3 hour special.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When a chick asks for your last name, just tell her: "Don't worry, it'll go well with your first name" or anything that alludes to her being obsessed with getting married to you. Or better, make one up that turns into a joke name when combined with her firstname and tease her about it.

I kinda like this chick's sense of humour.
 
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When a chick asks for your last name, just tell her: "Don't worry, it'll go well with your first name" or anything that alludes to her being obsessed with getting married to you. Or better, make one up that turns into a joke name when combined with her firstname and tease her about it.

I kinda like this chick's sense of humour.

yeah I'm not worrying about these texts anymore.. she needs a ride on the MNIN express. I just need to worry about her saying "come and get me saturday" I put the offer out there already.
 
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because I talked to her yesterday on the phone and I told her I'll pick her up Saturday night @ her place. She said "we could do that" but she "may have to work" and she will find out today or tomorrow if she has to work or not.

What do you think?
I don't know man. The women I go out with know their work schedule and would make plans around it one way or another. My gut tells me that this one would use this excuse as a place holder in case she gets a better offer. I still say that women who are truly interested will set something in stone with you; if not the date/time you suggest, a specific counter offer.
Personally, I would have picked a different date while on the phone with her and went out with a different woman on Saturday.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You remind me of Shermanator from American Pie
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I don't know man. The women I go out with know their work schedule and would make plans around it one way or another. My gut tells me that this one would use this excuse as a place holder in case she gets a better offer. I still say that women who are truly interested will set something in stone with you; if not the date/time you suggest, a specific counter offer.
Personally, I would have picked a different date while on the phone with her and went out with a different woman on Saturday.
Yes, Francisco, but 2 can play that game. I needed to know if we are on for Saturday because I have another girl I could go out with.

I told this secret agent woman when we spoke on the phone I need to get my weekend planned. She said "why you have another date"?

I didn't tell her the truth I just said I had to help a buddy move.

Truth is I could call and set up a date with another woman, but since this one is stalling I'm not sure what to do. So I went ahead and made a date with the other girl Sunday.

So IF this girl accepts the date with me Saturday night and things go well, it could get very interesting making my date with the new girl on Sunday.

Maybe the agent girl suspects I have another girl interested in me so she is going to stall until the last second and then tell me the date for Sat night is on.
 

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Wow, this is an extremely elaborate thread for a girl you haven't met before. Good to see we're not over-thinking, here!
 

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Yes, Francisco, but 2 can play that game. I needed to know if we are on for Saturday because I have another girl I could go out with.[/qoute]
So, what are you waiting for? The first woman to call in with the right answer (i.e. "yes") wins a prize (that would be you). The one that snoozes, loses.
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I told this secret agent woman when we spoke on the phone I need to get my weekend planned. She said "why you have another date"?
You should have answered "Don't know yet, are you free?" Would have nipped it in the bud right then and there.
My Name is Nobody said:
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I didn't tell her the truth I just said I had to help a buddy move.
I hope she's blond for your sake.
My Name is Nobody said:
Truth is I could call and set up a date with another woman, but since this one is stalling I'm not sure what to do. So I went ahead and made a date with the other girl Sunday.
And this is the problem you run into by always leaving the ball in her court. If she was busy on Saturday you should have set up a date with her on Sunday and go out with the other one on Saturday instead of Sunday. You would have had both days booked and you wouldn't be waiting on this chick to decide what she wants to do with the ball.
My Name is Nobody said:
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So IF this girl accepts the date with me Saturday night and things go well, it could get very interesting making my date with the new girl on Sunday.
And if Hillary wins the election all of our problems will be solved. :rolleyes:
Damn, did I say that out loud? :nervous:
 
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Wow, this is an extremely elaborate thread for a girl you haven't met before. Good to see we're not over-thinking, here!
What are you smoking?

Not only did I meet her already, I kissed closed her in under 2 hours.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ahh, I I thought I read someone say that your first meeting was going to be this Saturday, and she didn't even have your name yet. Still, putting your interaction line for line in real time on a message board is sketchy at best.
 
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Still, putting your interaction line for line in real time on a message board is sketchy at best.
Yeah it's not a good idea.
 

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as usual with MNIN, WAY too much attention for a girl who plays games...couldn't you just play it by ear for once?
 

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as usual with MNIN, WAY too much attention for a girl who plays games...couldn't you just play it by ear for once?
Three letters...

N-Y-E.... :whistle:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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