Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yep it's mandatory. If she consistently refuses even after banging she either doesn't like you that much or she is sucking a different guy and she doesn't want to be sucking 2 guys at once. I have never had a chic refuse to do it after we banged a couple times. Kick her to the curb.Sammo said:Uh, i don't have many rules, but one is she always chokes on my **** before i even consider going down there..
This guy's situation is a perfect example of what I was talking about in my threadmikey4245 said:I've went down on her multiple times, but she hasn't given me oral sex, but shes admitted to giving oral sex to previous boyfriends.
I've brought it up once and she said "You're really that desperate to get head".
You're making your own false assumptions here as you contradict yourselfJaylan said:^ The reality is that not every woman enjoys oral sex. If his girlfriend is that kind of woman, he should find someone more compatible with him.
Don't make the silly assumption that every girl enjoys oral sex. Many do not. What his girlfriend did in the pass could have simply been just to please the other guys even though she wasn't really into it.
:crackup:Malice said:They shouldn't have married the b!tch then, that's on them. I have been married 4 years and she still likes to suck it enthusiastically. My favorite is in the shower when she gets on her knees. She doesn't even like me going down on her, I don't have to do sh!t. I was smart and married a foreign woman, not many smart men like me around.
They shouldn't have married the b!tch then, that's on them. I have been married 4 years and she still likes to suck it enthusiastically. My favorite is in the shower when she gets on her knees. She doesn't even like me going down on her, I don't have to do sh!t. I was smart and married a foreign woman, not many smart men like me around.buzzin_frog said:I know some married guys who complain about a stale sex life and their wives are just going through the motions.....should they find someone more compatible to fvck instead?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It feels good to have power doesn't it. Don't go down on her again until she enthusiastically sucks the color off you d!ck, swallows and looks up at you with a huge grinmikey4245 said:Didn't go down on her lmao now she's begging me at night to go down
This relationship is over. They are on different wavelengths, and its the beginning of the end when people start using sex as a reward-punishment game. Like I said, its better to just find someone you are sexually compatible with, instead of trying to bend their will.JoeMarron said:It feels good to have power doesn't it. Don't go down on her again until she enthusiastically sucks the color off you d!ck, swallows and looks up at you with a huge grin
Agreed. Lots of good posted advice.Jaylan said:This relationship is over. They are on different wavelengths, and its the beginning of the end when people start using sex and a reward-punishment game. Like I said, its better to just find someone you are sexually compatible with, instead of trying to bend their will.
I give them a month tops, maybe 2.
I'm betting this is a troll. She won't go down and now she does after he makes this post. It doesn't work that way.mikey4245 said:Didn't go down on her lmao now she's begging me at night to go down
Did you leave out the next part where she sucked you off? You are failing big time here.mikey4245 said:Didn't go down on her lmao now she's begging me at night to go down