You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yep it's mandatory. If she consistently refuses even after banging she either doesn't like you that much or she is sucking a different guy and she doesn't want to be sucking 2 guys at once. I have never had a chic refuse to do it after we banged a couple times. Kick her to the curb.Sammo said:Uh, i don't have many rules, but one is she always chokes on my **** before i even consider going down there..
This guy's situation is a perfect example of what I was talking about in my threadmikey4245 said:I've went down on her multiple times, but she hasn't given me oral sex, but shes admitted to giving oral sex to previous boyfriends.
I've brought it up once and she said "You're really that desperate to get head".
You're making your own false assumptions here as you contradict yourselfJaylan said:^ The reality is that not every woman enjoys oral sex. If his girlfriend is that kind of woman, he should find someone more compatible with him.
Don't make the silly assumption that every girl enjoys oral sex. Many do not. What his girlfriend did in the pass could have simply been just to please the other guys even though she wasn't really into it.
:crackup:Malice said:They shouldn't have married the b!tch then, that's on them. I have been married 4 years and she still likes to suck it enthusiastically. My favorite is in the shower when she gets on her knees. She doesn't even like me going down on her, I don't have to do sh!t. I was smart and married a foreign woman, not many smart men like me around.
They shouldn't have married the b!tch then, that's on them. I have been married 4 years and she still likes to suck it enthusiastically. My favorite is in the shower when she gets on her knees. She doesn't even like me going down on her, I don't have to do sh!t. I was smart and married a foreign woman, not many smart men like me around.buzzin_frog said:I know some married guys who complain about a stale sex life and their wives are just going through the motions.....should they find someone more compatible to fvck instead?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It feels good to have power doesn't it. Don't go down on her again until she enthusiastically sucks the color off you d!ck, swallows and looks up at you with a huge grinmikey4245 said:Didn't go down on her lmao now she's begging me at night to go down
This relationship is over. They are on different wavelengths, and its the beginning of the end when people start using sex as a reward-punishment game. Like I said, its better to just find someone you are sexually compatible with, instead of trying to bend their will.JoeMarron said:It feels good to have power doesn't it. Don't go down on her again until she enthusiastically sucks the color off you d!ck, swallows and looks up at you with a huge grin
Agreed. Lots of good posted advice.Jaylan said:This relationship is over. They are on different wavelengths, and its the beginning of the end when people start using sex and a reward-punishment game. Like I said, its better to just find someone you are sexually compatible with, instead of trying to bend their will.
I give them a month tops, maybe 2.
I'm betting this is a troll. She won't go down and now she does after he makes this post. It doesn't work that way.mikey4245 said:Didn't go down on her lmao now she's begging me at night to go down
Did you leave out the next part where she sucked you off? You are failing big time here.mikey4245 said:Didn't go down on her lmao now she's begging me at night to go down