I give up, where the **** do yall meet girls

[Dhoulmagus]

Bars and clubs are bad and tinder lol. Is Okcupid and POF really where it is at? Everybody only hangs out with their high school/county cliques in college.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Where the Girls Are

Chicks are literally everywhere. The grocery store, farmers markets, pet stores, dressed up as cosplay girls at comic book conventions, Barnes and Noble, the fem hy section of Walgreens, and of course just walking up and down the street.

However, I think you want to know where you can find women en masse and those places are bars, restaurants, lounges, your local mall and of course the club. What you're going to have to do is do a series of reconnaissance missions find out where the popping spots are in your area or you're going to have to post in So Suave's or another site's wingman forum.

 

[Mike32ct]

Everybody only hangs out with their high school/county cliques in college.

Clique is the enemy of your dik lol.

Sorry couldn't resist lol.

In all seriousness, Rex's response covers it.

The only caveat I might add is that the best place might not necessarily be the busiest or have the best ratio. Sometimes you can go to a busy place that is 80 percent women and do very poorly because they are too worried about what their friends in their large group might think of you. And busy means more distractions and more dudes for her to choose from. Sometimes the best bar or club or restaurant or lounge or whatever to hook up from is one that is very slow and the women are bored.

 

[Striking Tan]

Bars and clubs are bad and tinder lol. Is Okcupid and POF really where it is at? Everybody only hangs out with their high school/county cliques in college.

anywhere

so r u saying that everywhere u go, its 100% guys? what the fuk

oh and in college, everyone has cliques? like maury says, that's a lie.

 

[Don-Kong]

Stating the obvious but to meet girls you have to approach.

Go where there is a high volume, this improves the chances and also helps you build momentum in your mental state from one branch to another. Its soooooo much fun.

 

[_sideways_]

Sometimes during the year they are just not out...like during finals week. But that's when I kinda take my focus and energy on doing more workouts or just improving my wardrobe or what not

but when I find that I'm wondering where all the pretty girls are at, I hit up a strip club for an hour...that gets my visual fix and then I just start approaching anyone around with a smile on my face.

basically I try not to get down in the dumps because "there are no girls around".

its also a good reminder to not hesitate or be shy because you never know when there's a dry spell around the corner.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

There are plenty of girls, but they are all in groups and look unapproachable. If they date somebody, 9 times out of ten the dude is from her high school or something

 

[MtnMan]

no offense OP, but it sounds like you are just b!tching. I get it, BTDT. You know what you need to do, just go do it.

 

[Bingo-Player]

two key words here SOCIAL CIRCLES

bars clubs shops restaurants yea they're all fine but your always gonna have an uphill battle on your hands cos your that unknown random dude that could be a serial rapist behind closed doors

make friends first then let them "introduce" you to other women

you've already been validated & screened through the mutuals so your on an even playing field

 

[JoeMarron]

two key words here SOCIAL CIRCLES

bars clubs shops restaurants yea they're all fine but your always gonna have an uphill battle on your hands cos your that unknown random dude that could be a serial rapist behind closed doors

make friends first then let them "introduce" you to other women

you've already been validated & screened through the mutuals so your on an even playing field

Yep. The vast majority of the population dates people from their social circle. Build a good social circle and you basically have a machine constantly spitting out date-able and fvck-able women.

 

[_sideways_]

That's the most sound advice I heard in months.

I got a bone to pick with you gentlemen lol