Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
The hotter the girl, the better I feel when I reject them.
Am I messed up?
Am I messed up?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I get my jollows by rejecting women.
- Thread starter Jack McCrack
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I-tallionStallion
Master Don Juan
Yeah haha...sounds like maybe a confidence issue or a hate you have for pretty women maybe lol
ready123
Master Don Juan
how far into the sarge are you rejecting them?
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
I don't sarge them because if I accidentally take it too far, I could create a monster.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ready123
Master Don Juan
I could reframe this as you really ejecting yourself, but whatever
fix your mysognistic view of relationships, you'll be much happier
fix your mysognistic view of relationships, you'll be much happier
I-tallionStallion
Master Don Juan
I completely agree with ready123...
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Well, I hate women. That's my problem.
I-tallionStallion
Master Don Juan
You need to figure out why......and stop. What the hell did they do to you? Quit being a prick
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Why?Quit being a prick
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
You hate women? So thats why youre on this site which is dedicated to seducing them right? Youre in the wrong forums dood.Jack McCrack said:Well, I hate women. That's my problem.
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
What kind of forum should I be on?
I-tallionStallion
Master Don Juan
haha prob a women hating one lol - a DJ isn't a prick...have you learned nothing from this website?
ready123
Master Don Juan
so what did women ever do to you that you feel like you gotta hurt them?
Jack McCrack: Nobody just wakes up one morning and hates women. Something(s) must have happened in your life to make you the way you are.
Regardless of the reason, there is a way that I can suggest that might work.
Try to get to know the women you interact with.. There doesn’t need to be any physical/sexual occurrences when interacting with a woman. Get to know them, see them up close and then be your own judge about them.
Sure there are lots of cold hearted b!tches and 2 faced wh0res out there.. but that’s how this world is... And you can either accept the world for what it is, and make the most of it... Or you can end up hating the world and ending up a miserable sod.
So from now on, don’t concentrate about the rejection/sexual part of women.. Rather take some time to get to KNOW women. And then with time maybe you'll get to know one that will be worth it all and change your life.
Regardless of the reason, there is a way that I can suggest that might work.
Try to get to know the women you interact with.. There doesn’t need to be any physical/sexual occurrences when interacting with a woman. Get to know them, see them up close and then be your own judge about them.
Sure there are lots of cold hearted b!tches and 2 faced wh0res out there.. but that’s how this world is... And you can either accept the world for what it is, and make the most of it... Or you can end up hating the world and ending up a miserable sod.
So from now on, don’t concentrate about the rejection/sexual part of women.. Rather take some time to get to KNOW women. And then with time maybe you'll get to know one that will be worth it all and change your life.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
It's not that I feel like hurting them, but I feel hurt BY them.
I have these expectations that no one ever seems to live up to. I try to give my best shot at everything I do, yet still I am unhappy. So why try?
I try to get to know girls, but their either never respond to me or they don't really know how to connect with me.
I don't know the difference between a conquest, or a general interest. I don't like leading girls on, nor do I like being led on.
Maybe it's because I've just moved to a new area and keeping in touch with my old flame from the old area is so lacking, she never gives me the attention that I give her. I'm tired of playing games.
I feel slighted by every little thing. I send a girl a message on myspace, she reads it but does not answer. My blood boils. I look for girls in my area but all of them are either not up to my standards or not local enough to my vicinity. When I see a pretty girl in the mall I don't even bother looking at her. Why should I? I've been in situations where I could have easily been laid, but sometimes it seems that girls sabotage themselves and act distant when I try to become close. I hate chasing girls. I just want to have fun. I'm so obsessed with winning that I can't even have fun anymore.
I'm tired of ****y and funny. To me, when I see a guy pull C+F I see a guy with something to hide. He brings nothing new to the table so he resorts to some hokey cover up to get girls to like him. Well, that's not me. I've been on these forums for 4 years now. I'm no novice to this. So if you're wondering if I've learned anything from this site, it's that the only person I can depend upon is myself.
What I've realized is, though, that most of these problems with girls not responding when I initiate happen on the internet and only on the internet.I like brooding. I like plotting. I like scheming. The good thing to know is that as soon as I close this browser window, you and I no longer exist.
I have these expectations that no one ever seems to live up to. I try to give my best shot at everything I do, yet still I am unhappy. So why try?
I try to get to know girls, but their either never respond to me or they don't really know how to connect with me.
I don't know the difference between a conquest, or a general interest. I don't like leading girls on, nor do I like being led on.
Maybe it's because I've just moved to a new area and keeping in touch with my old flame from the old area is so lacking, she never gives me the attention that I give her. I'm tired of playing games.
I feel slighted by every little thing. I send a girl a message on myspace, she reads it but does not answer. My blood boils. I look for girls in my area but all of them are either not up to my standards or not local enough to my vicinity. When I see a pretty girl in the mall I don't even bother looking at her. Why should I? I've been in situations where I could have easily been laid, but sometimes it seems that girls sabotage themselves and act distant when I try to become close. I hate chasing girls. I just want to have fun. I'm so obsessed with winning that I can't even have fun anymore.
I'm tired of ****y and funny. To me, when I see a guy pull C+F I see a guy with something to hide. He brings nothing new to the table so he resorts to some hokey cover up to get girls to like him. Well, that's not me. I've been on these forums for 4 years now. I'm no novice to this. So if you're wondering if I've learned anything from this site, it's that the only person I can depend upon is myself.
What I've realized is, though, that most of these problems with girls not responding when I initiate happen on the internet and only on the internet.I like brooding. I like plotting. I like scheming. The good thing to know is that as soon as I close this browser window, you and I no longer exist.
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Personally, I think hate develops character.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
You have too many expectations. You can only place those on yourself, not others.
For instance. You expect a girl to reply to your myspace page: that's unrealistic to think they will for sure. Which leads to disappointment and anger... for no good reason!
For instance. You expect a girl to reply to your myspace page: that's unrealistic to think they will for sure. Which leads to disappointment and anger... for no good reason!
I agree.iqqi said:You have too many expectations. You can only place those on yourself, not others.
For instance. You expect a girl to reply to your myspace page: that's unrealistic to think they will for sure. Which leads to disappointment and anger... for no good reason!
If only the world was perfect and everything worked as we wanted it to... If only I never had to get my heart broken... If only my parents didnt have to die one day.... if only EVERY girl would like me.... If only EVERY girl would reply to my messages... If only... If only.... IF ONLY!!!!
I think that what I am trying to say here is that this world is not all colors and happiness... Its not all down hill and its definitely not easy at times.
This is the world... These are the people in this world... And how you handle reality is up to you.. But you have 2 choices:
1st choice is to say "okay this is how things are, and now I am going to accept this and make the most of the world and the life that I have been given"
2nd choice is to hate everything you don’t agree with and end up hating the world.
Obviously the 2nd choice would be the easier one to take.. Just like breaking down a house is much easier than building a house... Its far easier to let negativity take over than positivity.. and this is a test a lot of us fail in nearly every single day of our lives.
What makes the difference is that some of us stand up to the negativity and overflow it with positive thoughts and perceptions.. While a lot of things about this world may be frustrating to us, there is still a lot about it that we can use to our advantage.
If I could wake up one morning and say "okay today I am going to go to the mall and I will meet the girl I will spend the rest of my life with" then do you think I wouldn’t? This is what makes this world "THIS WORLD", because its not as simple as I would like it to be.. and now I can cry and hate all the women that have broken my heart... Or I can thank them and appreciate the good times we had together. Thanks to them I have grown and learnt a lot.. I have a clearer vision of what type of woman I want to be with and what type of woman i DONT want to be with.
There are always 2 ways to look at things, you choose which perception you want to have about it. Change is a decision away.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.