"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I get my jollows by rejecting women.

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The hotter the girl, the better I feel when I reject them.

Am I messed up?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I-tallionStallion

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Yeah haha...sounds like maybe a confidence issue or a hate you have for pretty women maybe lol
 

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how far into the sarge are you rejecting them?
 

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i don't think so. Perhaps it's just a confidence boost knowing that you don't need them and acting upon it.
 

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I don't sarge them because if I accidentally take it too far, I could create a monster.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I could reframe this as you really ejecting yourself, but whatever

fix your mysognistic view of relationships, you'll be much happier
 

I-tallionStallion

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I completely agree with ready123...
 

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Well, I hate women. That's my problem.
 

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You need to figure out why......and stop. What the hell did they do to you? Quit being a prick
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jack McCrack said:
Well, I hate women. That's my problem.
You hate women? So thats why youre on this site which is dedicated to seducing them right? Youre in the wrong forums dood.
 

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What kind of forum should I be on?
 

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haha prob a women hating one lol - a DJ isn't a prick...have you learned nothing from this website?
 

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so what did women ever do to you that you feel like you gotta hurt them?
 

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Jack McCrack: Nobody just wakes up one morning and hates women. Something(s) must have happened in your life to make you the way you are.

Regardless of the reason, there is a way that I can suggest that might work.

Try to get to know the women you interact with.. There doesn’t need to be any physical/sexual occurrences when interacting with a woman. Get to know them, see them up close and then be your own judge about them.

Sure there are lots of cold hearted b!tches and 2 faced wh0res out there.. but that’s how this world is... And you can either accept the world for what it is, and make the most of it... Or you can end up hating the world and ending up a miserable sod.

So from now on, don’t concentrate about the rejection/sexual part of women.. Rather take some time to get to KNOW women. And then with time maybe you'll get to know one that will be worth it all and change your life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's not that I feel like hurting them, but I feel hurt BY them.

I have these expectations that no one ever seems to live up to. I try to give my best shot at everything I do, yet still I am unhappy. So why try?

I try to get to know girls, but their either never respond to me or they don't really know how to connect with me.

I don't know the difference between a conquest, or a general interest. I don't like leading girls on, nor do I like being led on.

Maybe it's because I've just moved to a new area and keeping in touch with my old flame from the old area is so lacking, she never gives me the attention that I give her. I'm tired of playing games.

I feel slighted by every little thing. I send a girl a message on myspace, she reads it but does not answer. My blood boils. I look for girls in my area but all of them are either not up to my standards or not local enough to my vicinity. When I see a pretty girl in the mall I don't even bother looking at her. Why should I? I've been in situations where I could have easily been laid, but sometimes it seems that girls sabotage themselves and act distant when I try to become close. I hate chasing girls. I just want to have fun. I'm so obsessed with winning that I can't even have fun anymore.

I'm tired of ****y and funny. To me, when I see a guy pull C+F I see a guy with something to hide. He brings nothing new to the table so he resorts to some hokey cover up to get girls to like him. Well, that's not me. I've been on these forums for 4 years now. I'm no novice to this. So if you're wondering if I've learned anything from this site, it's that the only person I can depend upon is myself.


What I've realized is, though, that most of these problems with girls not responding when I initiate happen on the internet and only on the internet.I like brooding. I like plotting. I like scheming. The good thing to know is that as soon as I close this browser window, you and I no longer exist.
 

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Stop hating women. It's a waste of time.
 

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Personally, I think hate develops character.
 

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You have too many expectations. You can only place those on yourself, not others.

For instance. You expect a girl to reply to your myspace page: that's unrealistic to think they will for sure. Which leads to disappointment and anger... for no good reason!
 

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iqqi said:
You have too many expectations. You can only place those on yourself, not others.

For instance. You expect a girl to reply to your myspace page: that's unrealistic to think they will for sure. Which leads to disappointment and anger... for no good reason!
I agree.

If only the world was perfect and everything worked as we wanted it to... If only I never had to get my heart broken... If only my parents didnt have to die one day.... if only EVERY girl would like me.... If only EVERY girl would reply to my messages... If only... If only.... IF ONLY!!!!

I think that what I am trying to say here is that this world is not all colors and happiness... Its not all down hill and its definitely not easy at times.

This is the world... These are the people in this world... And how you handle reality is up to you.. But you have 2 choices:

1st choice is to say "okay this is how things are, and now I am going to accept this and make the most of the world and the life that I have been given"

2nd choice is to hate everything you don’t agree with and end up hating the world.

Obviously the 2nd choice would be the easier one to take.. Just like breaking down a house is much easier than building a house... Its far easier to let negativity take over than positivity.. and this is a test a lot of us fail in nearly every single day of our lives.

What makes the difference is that some of us stand up to the negativity and overflow it with positive thoughts and perceptions.. While a lot of things about this world may be frustrating to us, there is still a lot about it that we can use to our advantage.

If I could wake up one morning and say "okay today I am going to go to the mall and I will meet the girl I will spend the rest of my life with" then do you think I wouldn’t? This is what makes this world "THIS WORLD", because its not as simple as I would like it to be.. and now I can cry and hate all the women that have broken my heart... Or I can thank them and appreciate the good times we had together. Thanks to them I have grown and learnt a lot.. I have a clearer vision of what type of woman I want to be with and what type of woman i DONT want to be with.

There are always 2 ways to look at things, you choose which perception you want to have about it. Change is a decision away.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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