"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I fvucked up.. damnit

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Weezy

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Story...

Hung out with the chick I've been posting about on Friday. Things went well, humped her 3 times.

Saturday rolls around, I'm out drinking with my buddies, and she texts me to tell me a funny story. We text back and forth for 30 minutes until the conversation slows down..

Then, I run into this girl that we met togeather a week ago at this party for the guy friend of hers that we both punk on quite a bit, although it's always just been me rolling with her punking him.

I shoot her a text, saying I saw her new curly haired friend... reminded me of dude X.. then I punk on him.

I didn't get a response till the next morning. I did text her kind of late, but sh1t.. why couldn't I have just turned off the phone and let it go??

Best way to handle this? back off for a bit or nothing to worry about?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TExting has fvcked up my chances more than anything.
Roissy may not be everybody cup of tea, but he has some good stuff about texting on his blog.
Less is more.
Try going out and leaving your phone at home next ime...I wish I had done this on more than a few occasions...a lil alcholhol and a cell phone is one bad combination.
 
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guess it couldn't have been too bad... Got a text mid-day asking me to come over so she could cook me dinner.
 
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