"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I fvucked up.. damnit

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Weezy

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Story...

Hung out with the chick I've been posting about on Friday. Things went well, humped her 3 times.

Saturday rolls around, I'm out drinking with my buddies, and she texts me to tell me a funny story. We text back and forth for 30 minutes until the conversation slows down..

Then, I run into this girl that we met togeather a week ago at this party for the guy friend of hers that we both punk on quite a bit, although it's always just been me rolling with her punking him.

I shoot her a text, saying I saw her new curly haired friend... reminded me of dude X.. then I punk on him.

I didn't get a response till the next morning. I did text her kind of late, but sh1t.. why couldn't I have just turned off the phone and let it go??

Best way to handle this? back off for a bit or nothing to worry about?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TExting has fvcked up my chances more than anything.
Roissy may not be everybody cup of tea, but he has some good stuff about texting on his blog.
Less is more.
Try going out and leaving your phone at home next ime...I wish I had done this on more than a few occasions...a lil alcholhol and a cell phone is one bad combination.
 
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guess it couldn't have been too bad... Got a text mid-day asking me to come over so she could cook me dinner.
 
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