"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I fvucked up.. damnit

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Story...

Hung out with the chick I've been posting about on Friday. Things went well, humped her 3 times.

Saturday rolls around, I'm out drinking with my buddies, and she texts me to tell me a funny story. We text back and forth for 30 minutes until the conversation slows down..

Then, I run into this girl that we met togeather a week ago at this party for the guy friend of hers that we both punk on quite a bit, although it's always just been me rolling with her punking him.

I shoot her a text, saying I saw her new curly haired friend... reminded me of dude X.. then I punk on him.

I didn't get a response till the next morning. I did text her kind of late, but sh1t.. why couldn't I have just turned off the phone and let it go??

Best way to handle this? back off for a bit or nothing to worry about?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TExting has fvcked up my chances more than anything.
Roissy may not be everybody cup of tea, but he has some good stuff about texting on his blog.
Less is more.
Try going out and leaving your phone at home next ime...I wish I had done this on more than a few occasions...a lil alcholhol and a cell phone is one bad combination.
 
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guess it couldn't have been too bad... Got a text mid-day asking me to come over so she could cook me dinner.
 
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