"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I fvucked up.. damnit

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Story...

Hung out with the chick I've been posting about on Friday. Things went well, humped her 3 times.

Saturday rolls around, I'm out drinking with my buddies, and she texts me to tell me a funny story. We text back and forth for 30 minutes until the conversation slows down..

Then, I run into this girl that we met togeather a week ago at this party for the guy friend of hers that we both punk on quite a bit, although it's always just been me rolling with her punking him.

I shoot her a text, saying I saw her new curly haired friend... reminded me of dude X.. then I punk on him.

I didn't get a response till the next morning. I did text her kind of late, but sh1t.. why couldn't I have just turned off the phone and let it go??

Best way to handle this? back off for a bit or nothing to worry about?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TExting has fvcked up my chances more than anything.
Roissy may not be everybody cup of tea, but he has some good stuff about texting on his blog.
Less is more.
Try going out and leaving your phone at home next ime...I wish I had done this on more than a few occasions...a lil alcholhol and a cell phone is one bad combination.
 
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guess it couldn't have been too bad... Got a text mid-day asking me to come over so she could cook me dinner.
 
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