"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I fvcking hate studying, nerds plz help

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Centaurion said:
^ I can see that you never 'studed'.

The trick when it comes to studying is to look at it as a full time job. When you are at college/university your JOB is to study. Studying should be your overall objective. End of story.

This is something I realized today. I always looked at school as something secondary for my social life. You know, put in x hours and then party. But that is wrong.
Thats right, my college education is an investment. Every hour I study now will pay off in the futur.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ok peeps this is gonna turn into my studying journal.

Do it NOW! LATER = NEVER

Most ppl simply arent willing to do what it takes to be successful
 

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Here in Italy, Medicine and Engineering are the toughest Universities. Law and Business are for rich people who like to party yet want a great future. Basically it works like this
 

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Thursday: Bad
Friday: Bad
Sat: Bad
Sun: Bad
Mon: Bad
Tue: VERY GOOD
Wed: GOOD
Thurs: bad
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am GOING to do this.
I am GOING to do this.
I'm gonna do whatever it takes to do this.
I'm willing to do whatever it takes to make this happen.
I HAVE TO figure this out.
I am GOING to figure this out.


Do it NOW. LATER = NEVER!!!
 
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Time management sound like your issue. Normal human behavior to waste time. We all put off things that don't excite us.

Get " What Smart Students Know" by Adam Robinson.

http://www.amazon.com/What-Smart-Stu.../dp/0517880857

Robinson's primary point: that traditional "learning" methods are boring, time-consuming, AND ineffective. Robinson's suggests that HOWEVER MUCH time you have to devote to your studies, whether it's an hour a day per college course or an hour per week for a high school course -- whatever -- your time is best employed using these methods. If you're short of time, or the test isn't so important, Robinson says to cut back on the methods to fit your time budget and the importance of the test.


It changed the way I studied from a struggling 3.0 undergraduate to a 3.6 Masters to a 3.9 PhD. Science all the way. I found it senior year as a undergraduate, I wish I found it much earlier.

Check out the book at your local bookstore. It teaches you how to study. You will throw away your highlighters after you read it.
 
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