"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I fvcking hate studying, nerds plz help

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Centaurion said:
^ I can see that you never 'studed'.

The trick when it comes to studying is to look at it as a full time job. When you are at college/university your JOB is to study. Studying should be your overall objective. End of story.

This is something I realized today. I always looked at school as something secondary for my social life. You know, put in x hours and then party. But that is wrong.
Thats right, my college education is an investment. Every hour I study now will pay off in the futur.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok peeps this is gonna turn into my studying journal.

Do it NOW! LATER = NEVER

Most ppl simply arent willing to do what it takes to be successful
 

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Here in Italy, Medicine and Engineering are the toughest Universities. Law and Business are for rich people who like to party yet want a great future. Basically it works like this
 

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Thursday: Bad
Friday: Bad
Sat: Bad
Sun: Bad
Mon: Bad
Tue: VERY GOOD
Wed: GOOD
Thurs: bad
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I am GOING to do this.
I am GOING to do this.
I'm gonna do whatever it takes to do this.
I'm willing to do whatever it takes to make this happen.
I HAVE TO figure this out.
I am GOING to figure this out.


Do it NOW. LATER = NEVER!!!
 
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Time management sound like your issue. Normal human behavior to waste time. We all put off things that don't excite us.

Get " What Smart Students Know" by Adam Robinson.

http://www.amazon.com/What-Smart-Stu.../dp/0517880857

Robinson's primary point: that traditional "learning" methods are boring, time-consuming, AND ineffective. Robinson's suggests that HOWEVER MUCH time you have to devote to your studies, whether it's an hour a day per college course or an hour per week for a high school course -- whatever -- your time is best employed using these methods. If you're short of time, or the test isn't so important, Robinson says to cut back on the methods to fit your time budget and the importance of the test.


It changed the way I studied from a struggling 3.0 undergraduate to a 3.6 Masters to a 3.9 PhD. Science all the way. I found it senior year as a undergraduate, I wish I found it much earlier.

Check out the book at your local bookstore. It teaches you how to study. You will throw away your highlighters after you read it.
 
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