"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I Found a "Chaste" Woman!

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Well, not really, but at least she's trying.

I'm taking an evening class for fun, and we have small group discussions every week. There are a couple of married couples in the group, and one of them is being ridiculously, over the top flirty, clearly angling for a lay. For whatever reason, women who are this forward irritate me, probably because she's married in this case. She's hot, so it's not easy to just ignore her.

The second one, good for her, she's at least trying to be chaste and loyal to her husband. The problem is, she over-corrects and winds up revealing how attracted she is to me. She either ignores me completely, or throws a hissy fit of rage at any minor comment I make. The married woman above does the same, but she doesn't try to hide her attraction to me, either.

Women are f'ing nuts. These aren't young broads either, so they don't grow out of being entitled bitches.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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EyeBRollin

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Braggadocio is not masculine. These women are married and allegedly want to fvck you. If your moral code permits this, deliver the goods. If not, stop wasting precious time.
 
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For me it's just a glimmer of hope that a woman can actually remain chaste and loyal to her husband, even if it requires extraordinary effort on her part. She's so nervous around me she can't even bring herself to have even the briefest of conversations. It's very refreshing, actually.

She probably intuits that I'm out of her league but I've seen a many fattie chase me over the years and they had no reservations trying to play well out of their league.
 

Hal9000

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Fatties are kind of like men in that they are used to rejection and can therefore be much more forward. Good looking women tend to be much more ambiguous about their feelings until they are sure you are into them also because they don't have that built up immunity to rejection.
 

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I've met lots of chaste women in my life... They were wrapped in burkas in Afghanistan and Saudi Arabia, and they were guarded by the fathers, husbands, or brothers 24/7. To wander off meant she got stoned. These were chaste... that's it.

A woman will stay true to her man as long as the man behaves like a man and doesn't get complacent of lazy. If a woman has lost attraction for her dude, and another dude comes along that is interested in her, and he knows how to push her buttons, and opportunity presents itself and there is little chance of her getting caught... she will cheat on him.

A few years ago I was involved with a married woman, only I did not know she was married. this went on for a few weeks before she told me. Then I broke it off, she told me that me fvcking her was actually good for her marriage. Yep... her cheating she was doing to save her marriage (chicks always rationalize their behavior). Later I would find out that her husband was a pastor at a Methodist Church. I was a little relieved to find this out, because than I was pretty sure she wouldn't tell anyone, and if he'd been some NRA loving truck-driver... well, that might have gotten messy.

I know a woman now who is a Catholic Nun... yep, a NUN. She works with a non-profit I volunteer with and if I wanted to fvck her... I could. She's not bad looking really, but since nuns are technically supposed to be married to Jesus.... well I have my doubts, but that not a chance I'm willing to take.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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devilkingx2

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The second one, good for her, she's at least trying to be chaste and loyal to her husband. The problem is, she over-corrects and winds up revealing how attracted she is to me. She either ignores me completely, or throws a hissy fit of rage at any minor comment I make. The married woman above does the same, but she doesn't try to hide her attraction to me, either.
This just sounds like delusion bro, it sounds like she has some petty beef with you rather than any sort of attraction lol
 
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