"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I forgot how to 'be nice' :s + a situation + isolate tips?

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faiNt`

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Alright well I think it's happened to me .. nice guy turns complete jerk. I realize it as it's happening, but I don't know how to 'be nice' without seeming needy etc. Anyone? :eek: Basically I got the 'push' (move like shove lol) but I can't 'pull' yet, because it seems needy to me.

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Situation: A girl that I'm a complete a**hole to was surprised I was a virgin. Now she says I'm all talk and prude, how do I respond to this? I know it's a form of **** test, so it's all good. As of now I've acted indifferent and just laughed when she said it, but I'm not sure what attitude I'm supposed to have now. Oh, and I like her a little.

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How do you isolate a girl from a group to make a move? Really lost on this one ..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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why did she even find out your a virgin. Your game slipped and she saw the mask you been throwing up. Now she doesn't think you are real.

Yes your mask did slip...you know why? because you said this:

but I'm not sure what attitude I'm supposed to have now. Oh, and I like her a little.
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Telling. I'm sure it's more than a little.

If it was in you and not just on you like a mask, you'd still have your same attitude. When you waver it shows your inner game isn't strong.

Keep working on your inner game and be the person you really want to be man. Don't go changing because of what one person thinks. You'll be twisting in the wind forever worrying about other peoples opinions.
 
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