I forgot how to 'be nice' :s + a situation + isolate tips?

[faiNt`]

#1

Alright well I think it's happened to me .. nice guy turns complete jerk. I realize it as it's happening, but I don't know how to 'be nice' without seeming needy etc. Anyone? Basically I got the 'push' (move like shove lol) but I can't 'pull' yet, because it seems needy to me.

#2

Situation: A girl that I'm a complete a**hole to was surprised I was a virgin. Now she says I'm all talk and prude, how do I respond to this? I know it's a form of **** test, so it's all good. As of now I've acted indifferent and just laughed when she said it, but I'm not sure what attitude I'm supposed to have now. Oh, and I like her a little.

#3

How do you isolate a girl from a group to make a move? Really lost on this one ..

 

[faiNt`]

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[Warrior74]

why did she even find out your a virgin. Your game slipped and she saw the mask you been throwing up. Now she doesn't think you are real.

Yes your mask did slip...you know why? because you said this:

but I'm not sure what attitude I'm supposed to have now. Oh, and I like her a little.

Telling. I'm sure it's more than a little.

If it was in you and not just on you like a mask, you'd still have your same attitude. When you waver it shows your inner game isn't strong.

Keep working on your inner game and be the person you really want to be man. Don't go changing because of what one person thinks. You'll be twisting in the wind forever worrying about other peoples opinions.