"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I forgot how to 'be nice' :s + a situation + isolate tips?

faiNt`

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Alright well I think it's happened to me .. nice guy turns complete jerk. I realize it as it's happening, but I don't know how to 'be nice' without seeming needy etc. Anyone? :eek: Basically I got the 'push' (move like shove lol) but I can't 'pull' yet, because it seems needy to me.

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Situation: A girl that I'm a complete a**hole to was surprised I was a virgin. Now she says I'm all talk and prude, how do I respond to this? I know it's a form of **** test, so it's all good. As of now I've acted indifferent and just laughed when she said it, but I'm not sure what attitude I'm supposed to have now. Oh, and I like her a little.

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How do you isolate a girl from a group to make a move? Really lost on this one ..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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why did she even find out your a virgin. Your game slipped and she saw the mask you been throwing up. Now she doesn't think you are real.

Yes your mask did slip...you know why? because you said this:

but I'm not sure what attitude I'm supposed to have now. Oh, and I like her a little.
Telling. I'm sure it's more than a little.

If it was in you and not just on you like a mask, you'd still have your same attitude. When you waver it shows your inner game isn't strong.

Keep working on your inner game and be the person you really want to be man. Don't go changing because of what one person thinks. You'll be twisting in the wind forever worrying about other peoples opinions.
 
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