"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I forgot how to 'be nice' :s + a situation + isolate tips?

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Alright well I think it's happened to me .. nice guy turns complete jerk. I realize it as it's happening, but I don't know how to 'be nice' without seeming needy etc. Anyone? :eek: Basically I got the 'push' (move like shove lol) but I can't 'pull' yet, because it seems needy to me.

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Situation: A girl that I'm a complete a**hole to was surprised I was a virgin. Now she says I'm all talk and prude, how do I respond to this? I know it's a form of **** test, so it's all good. As of now I've acted indifferent and just laughed when she said it, but I'm not sure what attitude I'm supposed to have now. Oh, and I like her a little.

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How do you isolate a girl from a group to make a move? Really lost on this one ..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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why did she even find out your a virgin. Your game slipped and she saw the mask you been throwing up. Now she doesn't think you are real.

Yes your mask did slip...you know why? because you said this:

but I'm not sure what attitude I'm supposed to have now. Oh, and I like her a little.
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Telling. I'm sure it's more than a little.

If it was in you and not just on you like a mask, you'd still have your same attitude. When you waver it shows your inner game isn't strong.

Keep working on your inner game and be the person you really want to be man. Don't go changing because of what one person thinks. You'll be twisting in the wind forever worrying about other peoples opinions.
 
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