"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I find it hard to smile

J S Az

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I don't know why, but I just often find it hard to smile even when naturally I should be

this is especially problematic when making eye contact

I will make it and hold it but am unable to smile

so let me ask some questions

you're not supposed to walk around with a smile, but when you make eye contact with a female and smile.. to what extent are we talking? full out with teeth or just subtle little grin? and any advice?
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ryanvalmont

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Originally posted by J S Az
I don't know why, but I just often find it hard to smile even when naturally I should be

this is especially problematic when making eye contact

I will make it and hold it but am unable to smile

so let me ask some questions

you're not supposed to walk around with a smile, but when you make eye contact with a female and smile.. to what extent are we talking? full out with teeth or just subtle little grin? and any advice?
I can smile,but i find it strange to do it to a girl you've made ec with.

it feel's strange to me,so i modify it abit to a naughty smirk/grin :)
 

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full out with teeth ----->> creep
subtle little grin ----->> better
 

Wiesman44

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My natural facial expression is a somewhat serious tone. When I'm at a party or clubbing, I'm having fun, so I have a 'more fun' look on my face. Not a smile, but not anything creepy either.

I sometimes have the problem of eye contact w/ no smile. You just have to force it out. Make that one extra effort, and it will be much easier each time.

If you go from 'serious tone' to a big ol' smile w/ teeth, you'll definitely look like a creep. Just do a suble smile like what was suggested.
 
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