“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I find it hard to smile

J S Az

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I don't know why, but I just often find it hard to smile even when naturally I should be

this is especially problematic when making eye contact

I will make it and hold it but am unable to smile

so let me ask some questions

you're not supposed to walk around with a smile, but when you make eye contact with a female and smile.. to what extent are we talking? full out with teeth or just subtle little grin? and any advice?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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ryanvalmont

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Originally posted by J S Az
I don't know why, but I just often find it hard to smile even when naturally I should be

this is especially problematic when making eye contact

I will make it and hold it but am unable to smile

so let me ask some questions

you're not supposed to walk around with a smile, but when you make eye contact with a female and smile.. to what extent are we talking? full out with teeth or just subtle little grin? and any advice?
I can smile,but i find it strange to do it to a girl you've made ec with.

it feel's strange to me,so i modify it abit to a naughty smirk/grin :)
 

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full out with teeth ----->> creep
subtle little grin ----->> better
 

Wiesman44

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My natural facial expression is a somewhat serious tone. When I'm at a party or clubbing, I'm having fun, so I have a 'more fun' look on my face. Not a smile, but not anything creepy either.

I sometimes have the problem of eye contact w/ no smile. You just have to force it out. Make that one extra effort, and it will be much easier each time.

If you go from 'serious tone' to a big ol' smile w/ teeth, you'll definitely look like a creep. Just do a suble smile like what was suggested.
 
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