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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I find it hard to smile

J S Az

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I don't know why, but I just often find it hard to smile even when naturally I should be

this is especially problematic when making eye contact

I will make it and hold it but am unable to smile

so let me ask some questions

you're not supposed to walk around with a smile, but when you make eye contact with a female and smile.. to what extent are we talking? full out with teeth or just subtle little grin? and any advice?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ryanvalmont

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Originally posted by J S Az
I don't know why, but I just often find it hard to smile even when naturally I should be

this is especially problematic when making eye contact

I will make it and hold it but am unable to smile

so let me ask some questions

you're not supposed to walk around with a smile, but when you make eye contact with a female and smile.. to what extent are we talking? full out with teeth or just subtle little grin? and any advice?
I can smile,but i find it strange to do it to a girl you've made ec with.

it feel's strange to me,so i modify it abit to a naughty smirk/grin :)
 

m4a1

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full out with teeth ----->> creep
subtle little grin ----->> better
 

Wiesman44

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My natural facial expression is a somewhat serious tone. When I'm at a party or clubbing, I'm having fun, so I have a 'more fun' look on my face. Not a smile, but not anything creepy either.

I sometimes have the problem of eye contact w/ no smile. You just have to force it out. Make that one extra effort, and it will be much easier each time.

If you go from 'serious tone' to a big ol' smile w/ teeth, you'll definitely look like a creep. Just do a suble smile like what was suggested.
 
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