"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I finally understand

everywomanshero

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I finally understand why some guys who are great in person totally suck at Internet seduction. allow me to explain.

I was once really, really great at seducing women online. I had different women in different cities. Not far porkers either. Very attractive ones including several strippers. Actually, it's not a bad racket. I saw new places, met exciting women, and wasn't around for the daily humdrum and crap. A lot better than being married, IMHO.

Something is changing though. As I start to get more and more serious about getting good in person, I suck more and more at seducing women online. I don't have the patiance anymore and to be honest, I feel like a total chump picking up women on a damn computer. It just seem ridiculas to try seducing a woman online. I want to see her eye patterns, body language, up close and in person. I want to kiss close her.

I believe a lot of guys who are good in person find sitting around chatting boring, restrictive, and not very challenging. I guess I finally understand why these guys blow off Internet dating. I'm not giving it up totally forever, but I'm past the stage where I enjoy doing it.

I am now proud to announce a bold new effort is underway to get good at women face-to-face. I have until Jan to screw off and do whatever I want. I've decided to do whatever it takes to get the resources to become good at this. The best I possibly can be, whatever that is. I'd welcome any suggestions for maximum efficiency. I only have a few months to get this down, so it's going to be a whirlwind effort.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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arutha

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I agree with a bit of that.. I used to think online was better, because it was easier and there was time to think of responces. Now I hate it for anything other than random chatter and killing time, I would much prefer to have the girl in person and be using body language and eye contact even if it is a bit harder and I'm not that great yet..
 

Climax

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Originally posted by arlanda
Wish me good luck! :p
Good luck.:woo:


Laterz...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Q-Pid

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Online is wack. It puts too much control in the womens hands, it's like equal footing or some ****.

Face-to-face the man can dominate :)

I did a little test with a bunch of online peopel on myspace - got like 5 phone numbers and an invitation to an orgy. Haha. It's lame to sarge online though - especially when nature's given us so many benefits of attracting the opposite sex face-to-face.
 
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