"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I finally understand

everywomanshero

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I finally understand why some guys who are great in person totally suck at Internet seduction. allow me to explain.

I was once really, really great at seducing women online. I had different women in different cities. Not far porkers either. Very attractive ones including several strippers. Actually, it's not a bad racket. I saw new places, met exciting women, and wasn't around for the daily humdrum and crap. A lot better than being married, IMHO.

Something is changing though. As I start to get more and more serious about getting good in person, I suck more and more at seducing women online. I don't have the patiance anymore and to be honest, I feel like a total chump picking up women on a damn computer. It just seem ridiculas to try seducing a woman online. I want to see her eye patterns, body language, up close and in person. I want to kiss close her.

I believe a lot of guys who are good in person find sitting around chatting boring, restrictive, and not very challenging. I guess I finally understand why these guys blow off Internet dating. I'm not giving it up totally forever, but I'm past the stage where I enjoy doing it.

I am now proud to announce a bold new effort is underway to get good at women face-to-face. I have until Jan to screw off and do whatever I want. I've decided to do whatever it takes to get the resources to become good at this. The best I possibly can be, whatever that is. I'd welcome any suggestions for maximum efficiency. I only have a few months to get this down, so it's going to be a whirlwind effort.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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arutha

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I agree with a bit of that.. I used to think online was better, because it was easier and there was time to think of responces. Now I hate it for anything other than random chatter and killing time, I would much prefer to have the girl in person and be using body language and eye contact even if it is a bit harder and I'm not that great yet..
 

Climax

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Originally posted by arlanda
Wish me good luck! :p
Good luck.:woo:


Laterz...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Q-Pid

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Online is wack. It puts too much control in the womens hands, it's like equal footing or some ****.

Face-to-face the man can dominate :)

I did a little test with a bunch of online peopel on myspace - got like 5 phone numbers and an invitation to an orgy. Haha. It's lame to sarge online though - especially when nature's given us so many benefits of attracting the opposite sex face-to-face.
 
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