"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I finally understand

everywomanshero

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I finally understand why some guys who are great in person totally suck at Internet seduction. allow me to explain.

I was once really, really great at seducing women online. I had different women in different cities. Not far porkers either. Very attractive ones including several strippers. Actually, it's not a bad racket. I saw new places, met exciting women, and wasn't around for the daily humdrum and crap. A lot better than being married, IMHO.

Something is changing though. As I start to get more and more serious about getting good in person, I suck more and more at seducing women online. I don't have the patiance anymore and to be honest, I feel like a total chump picking up women on a damn computer. It just seem ridiculas to try seducing a woman online. I want to see her eye patterns, body language, up close and in person. I want to kiss close her.

I believe a lot of guys who are good in person find sitting around chatting boring, restrictive, and not very challenging. I guess I finally understand why these guys blow off Internet dating. I'm not giving it up totally forever, but I'm past the stage where I enjoy doing it.

I am now proud to announce a bold new effort is underway to get good at women face-to-face. I have until Jan to screw off and do whatever I want. I've decided to do whatever it takes to get the resources to become good at this. The best I possibly can be, whatever that is. I'd welcome any suggestions for maximum efficiency. I only have a few months to get this down, so it's going to be a whirlwind effort.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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arutha

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I agree with a bit of that.. I used to think online was better, because it was easier and there was time to think of responces. Now I hate it for anything other than random chatter and killing time, I would much prefer to have the girl in person and be using body language and eye contact even if it is a bit harder and I'm not that great yet..
 

Climax

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Originally posted by arlanda
Wish me good luck! :p
Good luck.:woo:


Laterz...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Q-Pid

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Online is wack. It puts too much control in the womens hands, it's like equal footing or some ****.

Face-to-face the man can dominate :)

I did a little test with a bunch of online peopel on myspace - got like 5 phone numbers and an invitation to an orgy. Haha. It's lame to sarge online though - especially when nature's given us so many benefits of attracting the opposite sex face-to-face.
 
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