Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I finally understand

everywomanshero

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I finally understand why some guys who are great in person totally suck at Internet seduction. allow me to explain.

I was once really, really great at seducing women online. I had different women in different cities. Not far porkers either. Very attractive ones including several strippers. Actually, it's not a bad racket. I saw new places, met exciting women, and wasn't around for the daily humdrum and crap. A lot better than being married, IMHO.

Something is changing though. As I start to get more and more serious about getting good in person, I suck more and more at seducing women online. I don't have the patiance anymore and to be honest, I feel like a total chump picking up women on a damn computer. It just seem ridiculas to try seducing a woman online. I want to see her eye patterns, body language, up close and in person. I want to kiss close her.

I believe a lot of guys who are good in person find sitting around chatting boring, restrictive, and not very challenging. I guess I finally understand why these guys blow off Internet dating. I'm not giving it up totally forever, but I'm past the stage where I enjoy doing it.

I am now proud to announce a bold new effort is underway to get good at women face-to-face. I have until Jan to screw off and do whatever I want. I've decided to do whatever it takes to get the resources to become good at this. The best I possibly can be, whatever that is. I'd welcome any suggestions for maximum efficiency. I only have a few months to get this down, so it's going to be a whirlwind effort.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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arutha

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I agree with a bit of that.. I used to think online was better, because it was easier and there was time to think of responces. Now I hate it for anything other than random chatter and killing time, I would much prefer to have the girl in person and be using body language and eye contact even if it is a bit harder and I'm not that great yet..
 

Climax

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Originally posted by arlanda
Wish me good luck! :p
Good luck.:woo:


Laterz...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Q-Pid

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Online is wack. It puts too much control in the womens hands, it's like equal footing or some ****.

Face-to-face the man can dominate :)

I did a little test with a bunch of online peopel on myspace - got like 5 phone numbers and an invitation to an orgy. Haha. It's lame to sarge online though - especially when nature's given us so many benefits of attracting the opposite sex face-to-face.
 
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