El Payaso
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Yeah, I'm looking into it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I feel very nervous by tall, muscular men (I'm a girl)
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
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It's like an inexperienced guy being around a "hot chick", his brain evaluates their relative SMV's and hit confidence can't handle the disparity.
Who Dares Win
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I dont wanna join the bitter grumpy guys team but the stuff we're talking about here really belongs to this forum?
A girl coming here asking for suggestions or venting about how she feels toward big guys would be like one of us joining a girly forum to inform he likes to do ass to mouth with college girls.
Its not my intention to be rude in giving such sexually loaded picture, but her feelings belong to this forum as much as our dirty toughts belong there.
Whats gonna be the next step? a gay guy asking tips on how to take advantage of drunk guys which didnt manage to get a girl that night but are still horny and drunk?
A girl coming here asking for suggestions or venting about how she feels toward big guys would be like one of us joining a girly forum to inform he likes to do ass to mouth with college girls.
Its not my intention to be rude in giving such sexually loaded picture, but her feelings belong to this forum as much as our dirty toughts belong there.
Whats gonna be the next step? a gay guy asking tips on how to take advantage of drunk guys which didnt manage to get a girl that night but are still horny and drunk?
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
Master piece.
“No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.”
― Socrates
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Being a masterpiece and aware of it is a solution.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Even if this is a troll, very tall or muscular men generally need to ease this fear in girls or they will end up wondering why they aren't getting as much tail as they should be getting.
I can totally understand why it causes female anxiety, but guys should remember that getting muscular is WAY more of a benefit than a detriment. Don't go too hard-ass, but go right up to the edge and put on just enough gentle to relax girls. If you look like a walking rape-machine and act like it too, you may cause some fear lol
I can totally understand why it causes female anxiety, but guys should remember that getting muscular is WAY more of a benefit than a detriment. Don't go too hard-ass, but go right up to the edge and put on just enough gentle to relax girls. If you look like a walking rape-machine and act like it too, you may cause some fear lol
mrgoodstuff
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This man is right, you do have to make them more comfortable around you.
Huffman
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Of course man. Just image a huge guy sitting totally up straight at the table. On a typical restaurant table the guy next to him doesn't even have enough space (because tables are always frickin small).
That is unnerving and slightly intimidating at first. But after like 20 sec his charm takes all of that away, and instead he's not only attractive but also massively respected.
Think Anthony Robbins! If you see this guy pacing around a stage - in a suit that makes him look even bigger - it's intimidating! But he's super charming as well.
That is unnerving and slightly intimidating at first. But after like 20 sec his charm takes all of that away, and instead he's not only attractive but also massively respected.
Think Anthony Robbins! If you see this guy pacing around a stage - in a suit that makes him look even bigger - it's intimidating! But he's super charming as well.