El Payaso
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Yeah, I'm looking into it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I feel very nervous by tall, muscular men (I'm a girl)
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mrgoodstuff
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It's like an inexperienced guy being around a "hot chick", his brain evaluates their relative SMV's and hit confidence can't handle the disparity.
Who Dares Win
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I dont wanna join the bitter grumpy guys team but the stuff we're talking about here really belongs to this forum?
A girl coming here asking for suggestions or venting about how she feels toward big guys would be like one of us joining a girly forum to inform he likes to do ass to mouth with college girls.
Its not my intention to be rude in giving such sexually loaded picture, but her feelings belong to this forum as much as our dirty toughts belong there.
Whats gonna be the next step? a gay guy asking tips on how to take advantage of drunk guys which didnt manage to get a girl that night but are still horny and drunk?
A girl coming here asking for suggestions or venting about how she feels toward big guys would be like one of us joining a girly forum to inform he likes to do ass to mouth with college girls.
Its not my intention to be rude in giving such sexually loaded picture, but her feelings belong to this forum as much as our dirty toughts belong there.
Whats gonna be the next step? a gay guy asking tips on how to take advantage of drunk guys which didnt manage to get a girl that night but are still horny and drunk?
NSX-R
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Master piece.
“No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.”
― Socrates
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Being a masterpiece and aware of it is a solution.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Even if this is a troll, very tall or muscular men generally need to ease this fear in girls or they will end up wondering why they aren't getting as much tail as they should be getting.
I can totally understand why it causes female anxiety, but guys should remember that getting muscular is WAY more of a benefit than a detriment. Don't go too hard-ass, but go right up to the edge and put on just enough gentle to relax girls. If you look like a walking rape-machine and act like it too, you may cause some fear lol
I can totally understand why it causes female anxiety, but guys should remember that getting muscular is WAY more of a benefit than a detriment. Don't go too hard-ass, but go right up to the edge and put on just enough gentle to relax girls. If you look like a walking rape-machine and act like it too, you may cause some fear lol
mrgoodstuff
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This man is right, you do have to make them more comfortable around you.
Huffman
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Of course man. Just image a huge guy sitting totally up straight at the table. On a typical restaurant table the guy next to him doesn't even have enough space (because tables are always frickin small).
That is unnerving and slightly intimidating at first. But after like 20 sec his charm takes all of that away, and instead he's not only attractive but also massively respected.
Think Anthony Robbins! If you see this guy pacing around a stage - in a suit that makes him look even bigger - it's intimidating! But he's super charming as well.
That is unnerving and slightly intimidating at first. But after like 20 sec his charm takes all of that away, and instead he's not only attractive but also massively respected.
Think Anthony Robbins! If you see this guy pacing around a stage - in a suit that makes him look even bigger - it's intimidating! But he's super charming as well.